European Living and Learning, Rowland Style

New Blog from Kuwait!

2010-09-01T09:53:00.004+02:00

Come join in and read about our new travels in the Middle East.

http://mjlhj.blogspot.com

Signing Off

2010-01-04T11:28:00.003+01:00

We had a wonderful Christmas and I hope you did too. It's funny how all the hoopla takes weeks and weeks to prepare and then with one whoosh, it's finished. One thing about living overseas is that holidays are not long and drawn out. There's no hopping from family event to family event... it's just our house and we are done. Luckily, the Rowland's came for another Christmas visit this year and that gives us all something to look forward to. The kids always enjoy the 100% attention they always get from them. They don't hear the word "no" for a week and they love every minute of it!

While the Rowland's were here they took a little side trip to Rome. I don't have any of her pictures to share, but I must say they make me want to visit. We are planning a trip sometime this Spring, in between Matt's TDY's, school, and all the moving stuff we are starting to plan for. Italy is on my list though and I'm determined we are going to make it there. It will be our last big trip. Matt and I made another jetting trip to Amsterdam for New Year's Eve without the kids. The last 3 years we've been in Paris, London and Amsterdam! Wow! I never would have dreamed that when I was growing up. Well, for that matter even 5 years ago.

Wonder where we will be celebrating New Year's next year? For those of you that don't know, we are moving again this summer. This time, to Kuwait. I'm not joking. I'm not going to lie and say I love the idea and can't wait. However, I will say that I am glad our family will all stay together for the next 2 years, Matt won't deploy. We are supposed to have a nice house to live in and I'm looking forward to the warm weather and sunshine. It will be quite a change from here - dust storms, private schools, malls and restaurants that we are used to. It's not the US, that's for sure, but it's a modern country. I am ready to leave Germany, just wasn't planning on moving to Kuwait.

I know God has his hand in all this and I'm trying to accept it all. Luckily, my mom and aunt were here when Matt and I were having to discuss all this over the phone from Afghanistan. Frankly, I fell apart for a while. I was more than ready to come back to the states. These last few months though I have felt more at peace about it. It's only 2 years and that sounds so much better than 3 to me. Maybe I'll get some little job to pass the time... maybe I won't. One thing is for sure, I'll have a good tan year round!!

That being said, I think I'm officially taking a blog hiatus. I've not posted much for some time now and I'm gonna call it quits for now. My plan right now is to say goodbye and start a new blog once we are moved and settled into Kuwait in the Fall. We will leave here early summer, take another long visit to the states (I'm having knee surgery again, ick!) and then head to Kuwait on yet another long journey. I may do a couple of simple posts after we take our Italy trip and to any other tourist places we visit. But all in all, I'm done with this for now.

Thank you for reading... especially all 3 of you that leave comments now and then. I'll be sure to email you when I start a new blog on Middle East War Zone living, ha!

Santa

2009-12-20T16:05:00.002+01:00

She did it! I was so impressed. She told me she was going to and usually follows through with her word, but I wasn't quite sure about visiting Santa. The past couple of years she's screamed and wanted NOTHING to do with him. This year, we turned over a new leaf and successfully sat in his lap for a picture! I'm not sure what words were exchanged, but wish I could have heard her.

Obviously, he's not the best looking Santa. Hayden's immediate response upon seeing him was, "that's not the real Santa. He has a fake beard." True... so true. How can I argue with that? OH... I wish I were near a mall where there was a REAL Santa, but we just have to take what we can get around here. He was still a good sport.

Our First Snow Of the Season!

2009-12-19T11:40:00.010+01:00

It was 3 degrees outside this morning and now it's a toasty 7... brrrr!!! We did get a little snow though and had some fun in it this morning. We couldn't stay out long, but will head back out in a little while for some more fun. It really makes it feel like Christmas.

Let's see... Landen had his first band concert. It was really amazing to see what they had learned. I took some pictures but they really didn't turn out too well. I'll put one on here anyway. Hayden had fun at his school party and Jordyn made a Gingerbread House at her "school." We're waiting for the Rowland's to arrive this week and looking forward to a fun filled Christmas week. Tomorrow is a brunch with Santa. Jordyn says she'll sit in his lap, but we'll have to see if she follows through with that.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas week!

More Berlin

2009-12-06T19:56:00.013+01:00

Guess I should have put more to come in a few weeks instead of a few days.

Well, here are some more pictures from our trip. I took a lot, and they honestly take forever to upload onto this blog so I only picked a few.... the Brandenburg Gate, Checkpoint Charlie, the hotel where Michael Jackson dangled Blanket off the balcony, and all the Berlin Bears. I ended up buying me a Berlin Bear for my curio cabinet. There were so many it was hard to choose which one (especially when there are four, I mean 3 children with you... ) As always, Matt had his GPS in tact and we only got a little turned around one time.

Overall it was a fun trip and I'm very glad we went. It was not my favorite trip of every place that we have been, but I didn't want to say we've lived in Germany for 3 years and not have visited Berlin. There was LOTS of graffiti... and it was just a typical German atmosphere. I guess we have lived here so long that part of the German culture is becoming second nature to us.

Berlin - Day Eins & Zwei

2009-11-27T20:31:00.018+01:00

(At one of the Christmas Markets)

Yeah! I am posting from Berlin. The kids are all 3 fast asleep and Matt and I aren't getting much out of the German TV, so we are being entertained by the computer. Thankfully, he brought his laptop. It's funny to turn on the tv, see Blues Clues or reruns of sitcoms (John Belushi's last one but I can't think of the name of it) and it's all dubbed over in German voices. It just doesn't seem right... The kids don't seem to mind so much. (ok, so I didn't get this posted and I've been home for 3 days now... I tried!)

Anyway, back to Berlin! I'll have to take some pictures of the train ride on the way back because I failed to only take a couple on the way here. (I did!) It was expensive to take the train, but worth every penny in my opinion. The kids can stretch their legs and move around a little instead of being strapped in a seat belt. We didn't have to worry about where to stop for gas or where we would use the restroom. Speaking of restrooms, I did learn that it is much more difficult to use the bathroom on a train than in a plane. Just trust me. I'm glad I'm not a male! (And, we spent a gazillion euros on bathrooms in Berlin. Seriously! One trip cost us $7.50 after converting. I bet we spent $50 easy... enjoy your free restrooms, people!)

So, we got here and got to our apartment. It stated it sleeps 6, and well... it does. Two in the "living" room, 2 in the "kitchen" and 2 more in a side bedroom. It really works well for our set up of people and is much better than being crammed into a tiny hotel room. It's almost impossible to find rooms for 5 anyway. I'll get some pics of the outside tomorrow (can we say graffiti???) but I'll share a few of the inside tonight. Then we enjoyed our Thanksgiving dinner at Hard Rock.

A few of us are missing some toes because of these....

The shower curtain only came around about a 1/3 of the shower. Interesting... but I'm not a fan.

We went to the zoo this morning... yes, in the rain. We were snuggled up really well though and put our umbrellas and hoods to good use. Honestly, it was come and go all day and though we dodged a lot of puddles, we really lucked out overall. After the zoo, we went to the Christmas market accross the street, fed the kids McD's (b/c we spent 40 Euro feeding them lunch at the zoo for nothing more than a weiner & fries and a couple of 1/2 wraps! when you convert - it's a lot of money.... for lunch.)

The zoo was fabulous. I'm sure it is much prettier when the sun is shining and the bushes have leaves on them, but despite that it was still very nice. It's rather large, the kids LOVED it, and it was very clean. I was impressed by some of the habitats for the animals, though I thought a few of their water tanks needed some cleaning. Evidently, one of the monkeys had just had a baby and camera crews were there filming and taking pictures. Watch for us on TV -we may be famous! ha! I was most excited about seeing Knut, the famous bear. Of course, when we got to him... this is what we got to see. I was fearful of that happening.

However, we went back and to my excitement - he performed!

Want to know what is funny?? This is Knut!!!!!! (so I got a little confused with the Panda and the Polar. They both start with P, right?) ha! In my defense, the panda is quite famous too.

The elephants were hilarious. We watched them for a while. There was a little baby and we guess a sibling or other younger one who kept kicking each other... then the mom would break them up. It was really cute...

This picture is blurry, but I just had to share him. Yikes!

The kids after day 2. I think this sums it up:

More to come in a few days....

Long Overdue

2009-11-19T16:55:00.005+01:00

I've been meaning to post this for several weeks and for some reason I continue to fail to do it. So, today I've been knocking some things out.... changing sheets on the beds, wrapping some Christmas presents and getting them ready to ship, and I thought I would check this off my list as well.

What an incredible honor it is to have a stadium dedicated to my father in law. Most of you who read this know it is old news, but for those of you that didn't know SHS high school stadium is now named the Jim Rowland Stadium. WOW! It was one thing to hear about it, but it was entirely something different when I pulled up to that stadium and his name is splashed all over the stadium.

Pops definitely deserves such a high honor. From the time I can remember, (even when I was his TA in the 10th grade) he has had nothing but respect for Southside High School and ALL the other schools in Fort Smith. He has worked hard for so many, many years at making sure those lines were painted just right on all the fields, the stadiums were clean, the grass was just perfect - blade by blade, turning water on and off at various hours of the morning and night. I could go on and on. I just had a flashback of all the girls on the Dixie Belles taunting me as we would practice on the field before a football game when I was just beginning to date Matt. Little did I know he would be my father in law one day!

As has happened many times, sometimes being stationed overseas isn't all it's cracked up to be. I once again missed an event that I would have loved for my children, Matt and I to attend. However, life just sometimes doesn't allow everything we want. I was able to run by and see it when I made a quick trip back for my grandfather's funeral and we snapped a few pictures. Pops, the next time we come back home we are going to have to snap a few more. I didn't get everything I wanted so you will have to grin and bear a few more snaps.

Pops, we are so incredibly proud of you and honored to be in your family. We love you!

Pops with all but 1 of his grandchildren

Life & Such

2009-11-09T12:05:00.008+01:00

I'm just not in to this blogging thing right now. I guess you've figured that out if you have bothered to look at my blog. My mind is going in a million different directions right now and I just can't seem to focus on any one thing. I know Christmas is going to be here before I blink, and I just haven't gotten in that spirit yet. Normally, by now, I am almost finished shopping. But, this year... not so much. I have to shop early over here in order to get everything shipped so I'll have to get myself in gear sometime soon!

We've adjusted to daddy being back. It's odd that after being away from us for so long, the instant he walks back in the door it's as if he never left us. What was all the fuss about? The tears? The never ending feeling? It all wonderfully disappears! I have a maintenance man around the house again, a mower, a computer man, a driver, a help with the kiddos and some adult interaction in my house again. Woo hoo!!!!

The time in our lives has come once again in that we are working through where we will be moving next. Some of you already know, but as of now, the odds are that we are going to be remaining overseas. I've slowly found out that God's plans and mine are very, VERY different. Not sure if I'm being punished or what! No, I'm joking. Nothing in the military is ever set in stone until written orders are in hand, so we are just waiting until we know 100 percent. There is a lot more that will unfold on the blog after this.... so just keep that whole situation in your prayers. I could write a book about all my feelings on this, but I'll save that for another time. If you have kept up the least little bit, you know how ready I was/am to be back in the states. I'm feeling a little more at peace about it every single day....

On another note, we had fun at the annual elementary school Turkey Trot again this year! It was our 3rd year to participate in it, though this year Landen didn't get to compete since he moved to the middle school. So, it was all on Hayden. He didn't want to let his big brother out do him after he placed the last 2 years. With flying colors, Hayden pushed through - ran the entire 1.5 miles without stopping and got 2nd place for his age group!!!!!!! We were floored and very proud of him. My little cuddly boy is making a breakthrough into a big boy I'm afraid.

Before

During

Finished!

A Rock Star, Storm Trooper, and Cinderella

2009-11-01T08:19:00.007+01:00

Whew! What a few weeks it has been. I was able to go home for my grandfather's funeral (with the 3 kids, of course), Matt returned home, and we ended the week with Halloween! We are all getting readjusted and it's as if Matt never left. He's got lots of pictures I can post when I get some time. I've also got some other pictures to share, but for now.... here's Halloween.

We didn't have a costume party to go to this year, so we opted for trick or treating on base. Once again, it's mass chaos and I feel sorry for the people who live on base. They should take donations from the rest of us who live off base. Since Germans don't really trick or treat, all the Americans have to head to the base. That's a lot of people!

The picture of all the people is just to show you what it's like. You have to wait in line at each door there are so many people....

HE'S HOME!

2009-10-24T22:22:00.002+02:00

So happy to say, MATT IS HOME!!!!!!!!! In Germany..... and the kids and I are in Arkansas.

Seriously.

We'll all be together in about 36 hours.

Thank you for the prayers. :-)

Pappaw, We Love You

2009-10-15T20:15:00.004+02:00

We will all miss my grandfather dearly. He passed away early this morning after being sick for quite some time. He was a wonderful man that I am so thankful my children grew to know. What fantastic memories we have of him... traveling in his RV, taking care of his garden, and taking care of my grandmother for so many years. I can remember him taking us on road trips when we were young and he was a salesman. He came to my dance recitals as a young girl and loved to have homemade ice cream on the 4th of July.

We love you so much and will miss you. Thank you for being a wonderful Pappaw for so many years. Tears are falling, but we know you are in a better place.

In a Flash

2009-10-11T20:44:00.011+02:00

In a flash they came and now they are gone. I already miss them terribly! Unfortunately, my grandfather is not doing well and they had to leave a little earlier than we expected. We had a great time, did some fast touring, laughed, cooked and cried some tears. Thank you mom and aunt Donna for visiting (and doing dishes)! I love you... and already miss you.

They loved, loved, loved the flowers & grapes & trees...

This was a person! He sprayed water at people who walked by and Jordyn did NOT enjoy him.

A trip to a nursery in Wittlich

Cemetery at church courtyard in Trier

Berg Eltz (We took a tour inside, but weren't allowed to take pictures)

Luxembourg....

So glad you came! Give pappaw a big hug for me.

Happy 3rd, Pipers!

2009-10-06T21:44:00.009+02:00

Three years old. Wow! It's hard to believe I no longer have a 2 year old. Where has the time gone? It seems like just yesterday I was holding her in my arms for the very first time and couldn't wait to stick a dress and a big ole' bow in her hair. Time has flown, she has changed and is turning into such a little lady. It's so much fun to watch you grow... We love you, Pipers! Not sure why we call her Pipers, but anyway... we do. She giggles every time Matt calls her on the phone and says Jordy Pordy Pipers! Of course, there is a certain tone you must use.

Yes, I made this cake with a little bit of help from my mom and aunt Donna. I must admit I am proud of it and had fun making it (even if it did almost fall over and then I proceeded to spill a cup of water on the bottom of it... oh, and the handle collapsed. hee, hee!) The internet can help with so many things. In case you are still wondering, it is supposed to be a purse. Jordyn loves her purse and that's what she told me she wanted - a purse cake and a tiny rock band like Landen's.

Luxembourg, again...

2009-10-04T20:19:00.012+02:00

My mom and aunt Donna have come to visit me. It's definitely helping pass the time until Matt gets to come home. We've been doing a little bit of sightseeing and hope to do a lot more. I think they are enjoying themselves and we are definitely enjoying them. The first start was our old faithful, Manderscheid Castle.

Aunt Donna lost her glasses in the grass, and Landen found them to her delight.

I've posted tons of pictures of Luxembourg before, so I won't bore you with more. However, we did go visit the American Cemetery in Luxembourg which I've been talking about for a while now. It was really pretty, well manicured, and a smaller version of what we saw at Normandy. General Patton is buried there which you will see his grave in the pictures. This is where most of the soldiers are buried after the most famous, Battle of the Bulge. After the cemetery, we headed into the town of Luxembourg and spent part of the afternoon. The kids always like playing at the big city park and they had a great time as they usually do.

Recap and Upcoming

2009-09-30T16:13:00.004+02:00

This will be fast! The last few days have been a little stressful, but everyone is on the mend now. To make a long story short, Hayden got a bad case of the croupe cough. He gets it every year, but this was the worst he's ever had. We ended up at the hospital, but were released early evening and got to go home. Thank you, God for that. It's a little hard to be in the hospital with one child and have two others at home when your husband is in a foreign country and you don't have many friends left here. Matt's office has been great to help me out. Hayden is not well, but he is much better and hopefully will get to return to school on Monday.

So, with all that my week hasn't gone quite as planned. However, I think I'm about ready for tomorrow... just a few more things on my to do list. My mom and aunt will be here in the morning and I'll be making a trip to Frankfurt to pick them up. The plan was to get there and back with the boys were at school, but now it looks like I'll be taking 2 of the 3. That's what I get for planning, ha! You would think I would have learned that by now, but apparently I haven't.

Please pray for my grandparents health while my mom and aunt are here. They are the only siblings and were a little hesitant to leave them for such a long visit. Neither my grandmother or grandfather are in good health.

There should be some upcoming pictures as you know we'll be doing a lot of sightseeing!

Thanks, dad for encouraging mom to come.

My Hubby!

2009-09-27T17:48:00.005+02:00

I got this picture from Matt today. I've been encouraging him to take as many pictures as he can because usually I am the one with the camera. He has sent me a couple and I'm looking forward to seeing some more when he gets home. I asked him if I could put this on the blog and I got the ok from him. So, "here is Matt in his current location." ha! That's about all I can say. He looks good, doesn't he? Can't wait to give him a big hug and kiss in a few weeks.

Earlier in the week, I was thinking about how it used to be for wives years ago compared to now. I know that I have the better end of the deal with the internet, email, cell phones, texting and not having to rely on snail mail. However, I was wondering if sometimes it backfires to have all these things at a touch of a button.

Back when wives didn't hear from their husbands often it was a constant wonder in their heads as to where their spouses were were, what they were doing, were they safe? They were really in the dark. However, in todays world many of us hear from our husbands very often. Like, daily. So, when a few days go by and we don't hear from them... we begin to panic. This has happened a few times since he has been gone. I heard from Matt on Wednesday morning, I think. Then, nothing... nothing all day Thursday... I begin to panic and send him emails, no response. I tried to keep busy by cleaning my house, (though you wouldn't know it by looking at it.) Nothing. My mind begins to wander... and I try not to let it go there. But it does, and I play out everything in my head. How would I react if service members came to my door and knocked? Then, on Friday, I get a call from him. Now my mind can relax until it happens again. And it will, I'm certain.

It's also funny how time flies when its other friends spouses that are gone. Wow... only a few weeks and they'll be back, that time flew right by! But, when it's your own family, it feels like an eternity. Everyone gets busy in their everyday lives and time starts ticking.... to everyone else. I really can't complain as our summer did fly by us. We were almost too busy, but we loved every minute of it. However at home and in our own setting, we see Matt's clothes, his place at the dinner table, his car, his office and it's a constant reminder that he is not here with us. I think back to when he left and it seems like so long ago. Think back to where you were April 30. What have you done since then? I think of baseball season, Hayden's kindergarten graduation, a summer full of trips and fun and family, the beginning of 1st grade and middle school, Hayden losing his first tooth, Jordyn talking absolutely nonstop and forming such long sentences, and soccer season. It seems like he's missed so much.

I say all this, to tell you that if you know of a family who is going through a deployment, it means so much to them to give a few words of encouragement. What a nice surprise to get a card in the mail or a spontaneous phone call from an old friend. It doesn't take a lot of effort, and means the world to them. I'm guilty of not doing it and I am living it. I try to, but sometimes life gets in the way.

Thank you all for your kind words these last several months! We're almost there... I've got a sick kid calling my name so I best close.

Yippee!

2009-09-25T08:51:00.003+02:00

Guess now I know why I've been pulled over 7 times and been searched at the gate on the way into the base. Maybe I should stop complaining about it?! Ahh... just in time for some touring with my mom and aunt, too. Surely they won't recognize us with two SUV's in the driveway and an American bench sitting on the back porch. Ya think?

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/europe/09/24/germany.travel.alert/index.html

**Change that number to 9 times. Actually, I think I've lost count at this point**

Need Some Input

2009-09-23T08:08:00.002+02:00

I have to admit this feels a little different posting, now that I know who actually reads this thing. Some of you surprised me and I had no idea, and some that I thought did.... evidently don't. ha!

I have a question for you, now that I know who you are. I can see that 25 of you have already logged in and I still have some open invitations. I have one or two who seem to be having problems getting logged in. Did any of you experience this? I know if you have gmail account, it's fairly easy and probably logged you right in. How about those of you who don't have gmail? Any tricks? Any pointers? Can you see the blog ok?

Any pointers that might help would be great. I'm a member of a few private blogs myself, but once I set up my google account with a password I never had any issues.

Matt's set to come back October 22 and my mom and aunt are coming for a visit next week. I'm so excited and will have some more traveling pictures soon. Though, we'll probably stick mostly with what we know so some may be repeats.

The weather here has been gorgeous and sunny. It's been a beautiful September! I hear lots of you have been having LOTS of rain. I'm not sure why, but the apple trees don't seem to be producing many apples this fall. It's strange, because normally they are falling off the trees in clumps and they are everywhere we go. I'm not sure how the grapes produced, but I'll see in a week or two. I know it's grape picking time right now so I may miss them. It's strange to think that this is the last autumn we will experience here. I'm really going to try and enjoy this school year... it's already slipping away.

My Little Soccer Star!

2009-09-21T08:39:00.001+02:00

Why Can I Not Think of Any Catchy Titles Anymore?

2009-09-16T19:59:00.013+02:00

I'm leaving my blog open one more week as I'm still getting trickling comments and emails from various people. Thanks to all of you for commenting and emailing me and if you haven't yet, please see the post below and send me your email address.

Time is going slow here, but we are doing ok. Today withheld a few meltdowns from all of us, but we made a big pan of brownies and that made it all better! We are really missing Matt and the 5 months without him is taking a toll. When I think back, in some ways it has gone quickly and in other ways it seems like an eternity ago that we saw him.

Jordyn started gymnastics today and I was thinking back to when Matt left. She had her first gymnastics performance not long after he left and I took a few pictures. Look how much she's grown just since he's been gone. I wish I would have measured all of them before he left. I think they've all grown quite a bit over the summer. Landen's foot is as big as mine now and he's up to 5'. Hayden is finally growing and has lost his first tooth. I think he's about to lose a second one before long. The ironical thing is that Landen lost his first tooth while Matt was in Iraq... now Hayden has lost his first while he's in Afghanistan. I wonder where he will be when Jordyn loses her first tooth??!

In May

Today

The boys were really cracking me up playing outside tonight with their American friends down the street. They were playing world war with all their guns. What I found funny was listening to their comments.... "I'm America", I'm "Germany", I'm "Russian", I'm "Poland"..... "No, Poland is poor. I'm Korean!," , "Oh, wait! I'm Chinese - they make everything and have lots of money!"... I just thought that was funny for young kids to be saying. It's amazing what they pick up so young. They proceeded to play and used pears that had fallen to the ground from the pear tree next door and threw them as grenades. So funny... what a bunch of military brats, right?

Making A Change

2009-09-07T08:43:00.000+02:00

I've talked about it before, and then life seems to get in the way. Anyway, I'm gonna make the switch and make my blog private. Some of you have asked me why, and the answer is that I put so much information on here about my children. Nothing has happened or anything like that, but I just decided I would prefer to know who is reading what I'm writing about them.

So, I know there are a lot of you who read and NEVER leave a comment. If you prefer, you can email me at joleero@hotmail.com and I'll put you on the list. Or, leave me a comment with your email address so I can send you an invitation to the blog. I don't have to directly know you, so don't be scared! I know some of my mother in laws friends read it, etc.... if you would rather tell her then she can forward me the message and I'll still let you in.

I'm gonna leave this post up for a week or two, to give everyone time to log on. Stay tuned and watch for an invitation! Thanks for reading!

School and Anniversaries!

2009-09-05T14:36:00.000+02:00

My mother in law has been encouraging a new post and I told her I didn't know what to blog about! We're kind of boring right now. We're not traveling. Our big excitement is going to the BX and commissary, soccer practice and figuring out what to cook for dinner.

We did have a great first week of school! Landen and Hayden both seem to like their teachers and they seem to be adjusting nicely. It was a BIG jump for Landen because 5th grade begins middle school here. So, to my disappointment Landen and Hayden were only in the same school for one year. Anyway, the middle school involves lockers with combination locks, various teachers, 8 classes, school dances, beginning band, an a la carte line at lunch and more. It's quite an adjustment from elementary school. So far, so good. Here's a picture of them on their first day. The parents go with the 5th graders through out the whole first day to help them get organized and adjusted.

On another note, I found something involving some German culture to share with you. In Germany, they have a neat tradition for their "big" wedding anniversary years. We've watched across the street and through the window at the celebration of one. Only, at the time we weren't sure what it was all about. Now, our landlords are having their celebration next weekend and we were invited.

First, two "Christmas Trees" appear outside their doors with a cute little sign and with the appropriate garnishments (silver for 25.) These stay there for a few weeks until they hold their own party. Our landlords have invited Matt and I, though we can't take kids and I'm not sure I'll have a babysitter to go. However, I bought them a little present to take over and wish Matt was here to go see what it was all about. Anyway, back to the celebration. On the night of the party (the one I was invited to is a garden party and I'm still trying to figure out the rest of the invitation!), everyone will gather outside their house and bring their noise makers. They will shake and rattle them until the couple will come out the door and everyone takes pictures and congratulates them. Then, they will head to dinner or come into the house for the party.

Isn't it cute??

I'm not sure what else takes place, but I may add some more knowledge to this after next weekend. I've got word out and have got to find us a new teenage babysitter, but have had no luck so far. I'll keep you posted if I get to go. Don't hold your breath!

One last note... I need to mow, but it's too wet. The summer has left and the cold dreary rain is setting in. We're enjoying the last few rays of sunshine we will see for a long while and are noticing a few leaves are already starting to change. I think I'm actually ready for the fall this year.

We're Back and Ready To Roll!

2009-08-24T18:26:00.000+02:00

I'm really not even sure where to begin. I really don't think I'm going to harp on the summer, other than to say we had a fabulous one! We went to Florida, to the lake, had lots of fun with cousins, visited grandparents and aunts and uncles, swam, had a baptism, made a few short overnight trips with friends and family, went to movies and baseball games, celebrated my parents 40th anniversary, dreaded the flight back home and we did all of that with only a few ear infections and losing a toe nail! I have absolutely no regrets about spending the entire summer with my family. It made the time fly right by and as an added bonus, I got my Walmart/Target/Mexican food fix plus some free babysitting! It was seriously overwhelming to me, which I didn't expect. It's really just hard to explain unless you've ever lived overseas yourself.

So, I come back to Germany with a good attitude. I can do this. I can finish out our stay and enjoy the rest of the sight seeing we have to do. It's gonna be great even though I went to the shoppette today to get gas, mind you this was my only stop. I pump my gas after showing 55 forms of identification,go in and grab milk and get in the line as the 10th person with one aisle open and the fire alarm goes off. Seriously? Seriously. We have to leave the building so there I am waiting with 3 kids and a screaming 2 year old because we left her chocolate milk inside. We wait for the firetrucks and they let us back in to pay for our already pumped gas. Boy do I love this place and oh how I've missed it. Ok.... good attitude. Right.

See the counter on the side? Yep! We're down to 60+ days until Matt comes home. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can. The hardest part is over and we are on the down hill slope if we can get through these next two months. School starts next week. :-)

I've really got to get caught up on all my blog reading from the summer. I feel so behind in this area. Guess I have plenty of time now. Only 10 more months... not that I'm counting.

Best Day Yet!!!

2009-08-17T03:46:00.001+02:00

I was going to wait until I got back home to start blogging again, but I thought today deserved a special post. Landen was baptized! He was really saved a while back and wanted to be baptized, but at the time we were moving to Germany and Matt had already left. So, I urged him to wait until daddy could be there. So, we wait.

Fast forward: Germany = Swimming Pool so we once again decided to wait. Not that there is anything wrong with being baptized in a swimming pool, it just wasn't what we had imagined.

Fast forward: Summer. Arkansas. Matt's in Afghanistan.

Do we see a pattern? Our lifestyle isn't "normal" so to speak. So Landen and I discussed it once again and talked to Daddy about it. Daddy wanted us to go ahead with it and quit the waiting game. At the rate we were going he was going to be 20 before we could all be together for this! Even though we really missed Matt, we knew he was happy and at peace about it. Landen was baptized in the same baptistry that Matt and I were so that made it extra special. He also got to have ALL of his grandparents, several cousins and some other special people in his life that were able to attend.

Thank you to two special people who helped me out. Leigh Ann was sweet enough to take pictures for me and they turned out fantastic. Thank you so much! We wanted to make sure we didn't miss a thing, so I videoed from upstairs and also had another friend video from the balcony. Thank you so much to the Atchleys for that! It truly made it more enjoyable for me to know that we had it all documented so that Matt could be a part.

What an indescribable feeling to see your child give his life to God.

I'm Still Alive and Kicking!

2009-07-13T04:25:00.001+02:00

I guess by now, you have figured out that this blogging thing isn't happening this summer! We have been to Florida, been to the lake, seen lots of friends and family, and have lots more to come. I have so many pictures that I don't know where to begin. So, I won't. I'm officially signing off this thing for a few more weeks until I return to Germany. There are just too many malls, swimming pools, movies, and other fun things to do and I just can't keep up.

Keep Matt in your prayers. He's doing well and is in good spirits. We're just both wishing the time would fly. We're not even half way yet, but are getting close!

Check back toward the end of the summer and I will return!

Good Ole' USA!

2009-06-18T04:55:00.000+02:00

We are all still alive and kicking! I've been so busy catching up with family that I haven't been on the computer much other than checking my email. The trip over here was long and exhausting, but as good as it could have been considering the circumstances. I have a few pictures, but I just realized that I haven't loaded them on the computer yet. My regular camera broke, so I had to make due until I bought me a new one. A cheap one! We'll see how it holds up. I guess me dropping it might have had something to do with it.

We've had a fun week meeting new cousins, swimming, basking in the sun, going to baseball camp and visiting with missed family. I'll try to do better at keeping this updated. I'm headed to Florida in a few days!

Matt is doing well, for those who have asked. I'm still hearing from him rather frequently. We really miss him. The kiddo's are really missing him being here with us. Jordyn has cried for him this week and I overheard Landen saying he wishes dad was here. We miss you!

The Time Has Finally Arrived!

2009-06-04T20:33:00.001+02:00

We have looked forward to this for a long time and the time has finally come for us to pack. We are headed to Razorback Land soon!!

We are all a little emotional with the end of school activities, saying goodbye to friends who are moving, and the fact that Matt has been gone for 5 weeks. The boys are not out of school until the end of next week, but I am taking them out a few days early. Hayden's class put on their end of year program, just for me today. I got a lot of it on video, but really don't have time to upload it right now. It was sweet though, and thank goodness I had Jordyn to distract me because I almost lost it a few times. They sang a lot of patriotic songs which got me. I can't believe he is finished with his kindergarten year. It went by so quickly.

My camera broke, so I am camera-less. I do have a little video camera that I can sneak a few with, but the quality isn't all that great. The picture above is the only one I was able to get today.

He came in the door crying today because he doesn't want to tell his friends goodbye. Landen cried himself to sleep last night. Jordyn is downstairs still crying and it's almost 9:00. She didn't even have a nap today, so I'm not sure why. This will all be forgotten once we get to AR and stay busy with lots of fun things to do.

I hope to see many of you this summer. My calendar is really filling up quickly. Yes, I like to be organized and know what my plan is going to be, though I do roll with the punches a little better than I used to. Matt will vouch for that!

I don't know how much I'll be blogging, but I will try to some for Matt's sake. Stay tuned!

Landen Batting

2009-05-27T15:33:00.000+02:00

I know some of you are probably getting bored with my blog because it's been more about my kids than our travels. It will be this way for a while, as I'm trying to keep Matt entertained while he is away. We'll begin more European traveling in the fall when he returns... Berlin and Italy are on the list and hopefully a few other quick trips!

I caught the end of Landen at batting practice last night. Did I mention that the practice ended early due to a big thunderstorm coming through? Yep, pouring rain... and I can't find my keys. After getting drenched and a friend finding them after about 15 minutes of searching, they were in the middle of the field of grass on the ground. Jordyn evidently decided to play with them for a while without my knowing.

Here it is!

I'm also considering making my blog private. I'll let you know more about that soon...

13 Years and Counting.....

2009-05-25T08:13:00.001+02:00

Happy Anniversary, Matt! Nothing like being in different countries on your anniversary. Ah well... last year we were together so we wouldn't want to be too greedy by spending it together 2 years in a row.

Look how young we look! Could my bouquet be any bigger? And, I need a little powder for the shine... too funny. I would post more, but this is the only wedding picture I have over here. I left all my photo albums back in the states....

My Little Gymnastics Star

2009-05-21T10:53:00.000+02:00

Waiting for it to start...

Showtime!

Awards

Ok. So I don't know if she's a star, but in my book she is! It was so much fun to go watch Jordyn at her first "event." She started gymnastics in January and has just loved it. It is a mom and tot class, so we get to be out there together. She has so much fun and laughs pretty much the whole time she is there.

The hardest adjustment the first few weeks was not crying when it was over. Once she got into the routine, she knew when the end was coming. Jordyn also went through a couple of weeks of being terrified of the bars, but she soon got over it and now it seems to be her favorite thing to do. Walking across the beam is definitely not her forte. She needs some work on it :-) She's too interested in what other people are doing and not watching what she is doing. She also tries to run down it 90 to nothing!

I'm posting a few pictures from the show, though some are really blurry. Landen tried to help me out while I held the video so I could send it to Matt. He did really good, it's just that the lighting is not great in there and my camera doesn't do well. Here's the video.

As a side note, I took her to the hospital this week for her kidney tests. I won't go into details but it was horrible and I never want to do that again. The good news is that her kidneys have improved and she no longer needs a daily dose of medicine!!!

Awana

2009-05-17T20:03:00.000+02:00

Our days are going by one by one. To my surprise, they are going by rather quickly at the moment. We are unusually busy every day it seems. My list of things to do keeps growing as we count down to our big day of flying over the ocean again. I knew when I got off that plane alone with 3 kids, it wouldn't be the last time I did it alone. I even told Matt that... I was right.

Anyway, it's rare I can post about something that all 3 kids were involved in together, but today I can. Awana. Church has been a bit of an issue for us living overseas. It's not because we have to go to some great big fancy church to worship, it's just taken some adjustments and getting used to not having the luxury of visiting several churches until you find that certain one you feel a part of and it all falls into place. Here, there are 2 churches to choose from if you want to hear the sermon in English. One on base and one off. We went back and forth a few times, and ended going on base. However, there was no child care for the longest time and it wasn't until January that we found out Jordyn was able to attend Awana. So, every since then the three kids go to Awana while Matt and I attend the 5:00pm service. It's odd not getting up on Sunday morning and heading into church. When there is only one church, they have to schedule services for every denomination and the contemporary service, which is the one we enjoy is only offered in the evenings.

Back to Awana. The kids have done great learning their bible verses each week and going to their class. Some weeks it is a struggle on top of completing homework, but they have managed. They play games and have lots of fun activities for the children as well. Tonight was awards night and it was almost 2 hours long! That can feel like an eternity when you are sitting in a pew full of 2 year olds. They managed though and we made it through. It was so funny to watch Jordyn up on stage with all the other 2 year olds. All the kids got certificates and each one was recognized in some way.

On another note, Matt is settling in and doing well. His days are long and he works 7 days a week, so I can't imagine how tired he will be after months and months of that. He's had a little bit of an upset stomach this past week but seemed to be feeling much better when I talked to him tonight.

This week we have sports physicals, kidney tests at the German hospital (Jordyn), and a gymnastics show on top of our normal activities. Stay tuned...

Thankful for Technology

2009-05-13T20:45:00.001+02:00

Who says we can't have dinner with daddy while he's away? I'm so thankful we were born at the time we were so that our children have the advantage of "seeing" daddy on the computer and talking to him. Matt is still getting settled, but he managed to get a Skype call in tonight to the kids. It just so happened the kids were eating supper so they ate dinner while daddy watched. It's not a perfect connection, the video is slow and it's hard to hear when they are all talking, but it is much better than nothing.

I can't imagine what it was like before all the technology of today. Women told their husbands goodbye and wouldn't hear from them for weeks and weeks, months and months. I am fortunate and must remind myself of that, often! Two weeks down...... many to go, but at least we have started.

Hayden's Baseball Game

2009-05-09T21:22:00.000+02:00

Just wanted to share a few pictures from Hayden's baseball game today. I'm going to get some of Landen at his next game. He didn't have one today. Anyway, I'm really proud of Hayden. Matt and I asked for him to be able to play "up" this year with the 7 and 8 year olds. Technically, he was still 5 the first game but now he can say he's 6 so it doesn't seem so drastic. He had already played a year of t-ball before we got here, then played another year of it here. He was ready to move up into a league with actual outs and where the ball is pitched. It's amazing how much difference it makes when you have an older sibling and they are around the sport so much more. Anyway, he's doing great and we definitely made the right decision for him.

Matt got to see one game before he left. I'm so thankful that he did. Hayden asked me today if I could take pictures of his game and send to daddy and Pop. So, here they are... Nana, you may have to show Pop as I'm not sure he looks at this blog much. :-)

Hitting

On First Base

Coming around 3rd

Playing First Base

Game Over!

That Deodorant Can Be Dangerous

2009-05-08T08:48:00.000+02:00

Ya know how in the morning, you're in a hurry and you grab that deodorant to slather it under your arms as you multitask doing other things? I suggest you pay attention to what you are doing because when it's a new container and it has that oh so little plastic shield on top of it, it HURTS when you scrape it up and down your armpit. It wasn't my first time and I'm sure it won't be my last. One of these days I'll learn. Now, I must live with the after effects for a few days. Beware of your deodorant! Maybe this is why the German's choose not to wear it???

Let the Countdown Begin!

2009-05-03T14:27:00.000+02:00

Packing,

Presents,

Pictures,

Tears,
Driving,

Chili's for lunch,
Airport,

Flight canceled,

home again.

More tears,
More goodbyes,

More driving,
Subway for lunch,
Airport.

This time he didn't return with us. It was a long week, but we made it. The kids had a rough time of it, but they are trudging through and today has been a better day. To my surprise, I have been able to hold it together in front of the kids for the most part. It's not until the quiet hits and the night is upon us, that I began to feel the tears fall again. Thank you for the prayers. We have felt them. Please keep Matt in your prayers over the next several months. Pray for his safety and for his time to go quickly. We love you and miss you already!

Happy Birthday Hayden!

2009-04-25T20:31:00.000+02:00

Well, I couldn't let the night go by without making a little post about my 6 year old. I am tired, we have had a big few days and have a big week ahead so this will be quick.

We had a small slumber party for Hayden on Friday night with his two best friends from his class. I wasn't sure about 6 year olds spending the night together, but they did awesome. They played on the trampoline, football, dress up, the wii, and more. They went strong playing until about 10:00, then they all flaked out within a 30 minute span and it was peaceful slumber from 10:30 to 7:00 am.

Here's a few pictures from the fun. I don't feel like going into a lot of detail and getting all emotional, so I'm not. I love him and he's definitely still a mamma's boy. I remember that full head of blonde hair, 9 lb 8 oz baby boy that came into our lives 6 years ago and I wouldn't trade him for the world. He's adjusted well to kindergarten, but still loves nothing more than to stay home ALL day in his pj's.

Isn't that cake cute? Austin's mom made it for him. So sweet!

Packing Thoughts ....

2009-04-24T13:27:00.000+02:00

Evidently, Jordyn has a different idea than Matt when it comes to packing. Maybe we could just ship her back and forth for the next 6 months?

Amsterdam in Pictures

2009-04-16T15:02:00.000+02:00

Be prepared. It's a long slideshow, I know. We just had so many pictures I had a hard time picking and choosing.

The highlight and goal of our trip this time was to actually go into Amsterdam. Last year, we focused on Keukenhof and the flowers. I tried to get Matt and the kids to go back again to Keukenhof, but they weren't having it. I guess forcing them one time is punishment enough and they were good sports last year. Anyway, Amsterdam was fantastic!

When looking at the pictures, notice the bicycles everywhere. I'm talking... you can't imagine the number unless you are there. It's bikes, bikes, bikes.... thousands and thousands all over the city. We were told they have to fish out 10,000 or some crazy number a year out of the canals from people dumping them. There are "parking" garages of nothing but bikes on several levels. I can't even fathom how you begin to find your own in all that mess. I must say, we should take a hint in America to be more fit. However, many of them smoke too so I guess that ruins the "health" benefit.

Anyway, we visited the Anne Frank house which is what I was looking forward to the most. It had a really long line, but it moved very quickly. I really remember reading that book in school. It had such a huge impact on me. I'm not one to remember details and history, but for some reason that has always been in my head. I never dreamed I would actually get to stand in the rooms she wrote the diary in and touch the walls she was held captive in. It was amazing to think about. How sad... terribly, terribly sad. We got to climb up the tiny stairwells, behind the hidden bookcase... into the tiny rooms. The rooms were empty, as Otis had requested they be when they were taken away to the concentration camps. They still remain empty. We got to see the original diary that Anne had written at the end of the tour. I had talked a lot about it to Landen and really wanted him to read the book before we went. However, I never got it so he had to listen to the little bit of knowledge that I had. To my surprise, both he and Hayden were very intrigued with the whole thing. I know Hayden won't remember, but I sure hope Landen does. I tried to emphasize how this would be so important to them later on in their life and how fortunate they are to tour these things.

After that, we roamed around the city and took a canal cruise. That was fun and a nice break for the kids. The whole city is covered in canals and had so much personality. We never really made it to the "Red Light" district (not something you can see with 3 kids tagging along.) However, we did see a few questionable girls in windows off the beaten paths... I'll just leave it at that. Hayden asked why she was dressed like a "cheerleader." A cheerleader? Not quite what I would relate it to, but I guess that's all he could think of. It made for a lot of laughs between Matt and I.

We had good weather the first two days, but the third day was not so good. It was chilly and rainy so our plans to hang on the beach were changed. We ended up driving through The Haag and roaming the boardwalk. We ended up finding an aquarium to go to that was inside and the kids enjoyed that.

I won't get carried away here so you can see the pictures. Enjoy!

Last Easter Pics!

2009-04-13T13:29:00.001+02:00

Ok, enough Easter pics already, right? Grin and bear a few more, then we'll get back to Amsterdam. Promise.

(Norma - I tried uploading some video of them opening their baskets but finally gave up. Our connection is just not good here and it kept cutting off. After 4 hours, I quit... Next time I'll use the VGA mode which should make it load faster.)

Landen helped stuff the eggs and hide them this year for the little ones. It's nice to have a 10 year old around, yet sad he is already so grown up.

German Kids Video

2009-04-11T20:57:00.001+02:00

If you are interested, here's the video of the German children I mentioned in the last post.

Easter

2009-04-11T10:10:00.001+02:00

I decided to delay my Amsterdam pictures in lieu of Easter pics. I'll come back to Amsterdam after Easter is over. I've got the slideshow ready, but haven't completed the post on it.

Anyway, we have had the most beautiful weather this past week. It was so gorgeous yesterday that we even painted our easter eggs outside on the patio! Landen was gone with a friend and did his after he got home, but I didn't get any pictures of him. I forgot. I did snap some of the little ones though. Such a mess, but fun.

This one is my favorite. Hayden drew a lightsaber, along with the words "I am sorry the bad guys killed God. " Guess that sums it up from a 5 year olds perspective. I wish I could keep that egg forever and ever, but I'm guessing it won't smell to good in a week.

I'm also including a picture of the German kids who march through the neighborhood over easter weekend with their noise makers. It starts on Good Friday morning at 7:00am. They march through the village with their instruments and then stop and say a little chant. I haven't figured out the chant, but will ask one of my German neighbors when I see one. Anyway, they come by at 7:00am, 12:00pm, and 7:00pm. It's gone on for two days now and I assume it will end on Easter morning. Good thing our kids are early birds or it would definitely wake us all up. I may try to put some video up if it turned out... I haven't looked at it yet to see if it turned out.

HAPPY EASTER!!

Amsterdam in Pictures

2009-04-10T20:14:00.000+02:00

Be prepared. It's a long slideshow, I know. We just had so many pictures I had a hard time picking and choosing.

The highlight and goal of our trip this time was to actually go into Amsterdam. Last year, we focused on Keukenhof and the flowers. I tried to get Matt and the kids to go back again to Keukenhof, but they weren't having it. I guess forcing them one time is punishment enough and they were good sports last year. Anyway, Amsterdam was fantastic!

When looking at the pictures, notice the bicycles everywhere. I'm talking... you can't imagine the number unless you are there. It's bikes, bikes, bikes.... thousands and thousands all over the city. We were told they have to fish out 10,000 or some crazy number a year out of the canals from people dumping them. There are "parking" garages of nothing but bikes on several levels. I can't even fathom how you begin to find your own in all that mess. I must say, we should take a hint in America to be more fit. However, many of them smoke too so I guess that ruins the "health" benefit.

Anyway, we visited the Anne Frank house which is what I was looking forward to the most. It had a really long line, but it moved very quickly. I really remember reading that book in school. It had such a huge impact on me. I'm not one to remember details and history, but for some reason that has always been in my head. I never dreamed I would actually get to stand in the rooms she wrote the diary in. It was amazing to think about. How sad... terribly, terribly sad. We got to time up the tiny stairwells, behind the hidden bookcase... into the tiny rooms. We got to see the original diary. I had talked a lot about it to Landen and really wanted him to read the book before we went. However, I never got it so he had to go off the info I gave him. To my surprise, both he and Hayden were very intrigued with the whole thing. I know Hayden won't remember, but I sure hope Landen does. I tried to emphasize how this would be so important to them later on in their life and how fortunate they are to tour these things.

After that, we roamed around the city and took a canal cruise. That was fun and a nice break for the kids. The whole city is covered in canals and had so much personality. We never really made it to the "Red Light" district (not something you can see with 3 kids tagging along.) However, we did see a few questionable girls in windows off the beaten paths... I'll just leave it at that. Hayden asked why she was dressed like a "cheerleader." A cheerleader? Not quite what I would relate it to, but I guess that's all he could think of. It made for a lot of laughs between Matt and I.

We had good weather the first two days, but the third day was not so good. It was chilly and rainy so our plans to hang on the beach were changed. We ended up driving through The Haag and roaming the boardwalk. We ended up finding an aquarium to go to that was inside and the kids enjoyed that.

I won't get carried away here so you can see the pictures. Enjoy!

What a Difference

2009-04-08T20:35:00.000+02:00

What a difference a year makes. I couldn't resist taking the same jeans and coat that swallowed Jordyn last Spring. I can't believe this is the last time my parents saw her! She has grown so much (especially the hair!). Look at these....

We are back from our trip to Amsterdam. We didn't visit Keukenhof this year, but actually went into Amsterdam. I will blog more later about the trip when I have recuperated! Come back in a few days for LOTS of pictures. :-)

Shout Out to My SIL's...

2009-04-04T12:01:00.000+02:00

Happy Birthday to my sister in law, Shannon today. I can't find a picture at the moment, but maybe I'll have time later. I hope you have a wonderful day and I love you very much. Can't wait to see you this summer and spend some time together. You are one of the sweetest people I know.

Also, I'm getting a new sister in law today! I'm so excited for Steve and Jill and really wish I could be there for you both today. We are thinking about you and praying for you today and we hope it is a super special day for you and the kids. Best of luck and we can't wait for some pictures. We love you both!

Now, back to packing....

Happy Birthday to our "Tween!"

2009-03-30T13:51:00.000+02:00

It's happened in the blink of an eye. We officially have a "tween" on our hands. I'm not sure how it got here so quickly! Landen is 10 years old as of 3:13am eastern time. I still remember it like it was yesterday. I cried as we left the house because I thought my dog wouldn't love me anymore. I went in the hospital to be induced on Sunday evening and he didn't arrive until Tuesday morning. It was long, but worth it. He's a super sensitive, athletic, forgetful, never met a stranger, great big brother, well rounded kid and I love him to pieces.

We celebrated over the weekend with a bowling party and had a lot of fun. He had about 9 friends show up which was just about a perfect number. They bowled, ate, played songs, danced, and ended with some video games. I saw visions of the teen years coming... i-pods, cell phones and flirting. These kids are only in the 4th grade! It's going to be so different from when Matt and I were growing up with all this technology. What will they think of next?

He got lots of nice presents - well, mostly money and gift cards. The shopping is slim around here. Regardless, he was happy because he's been saving his money to buy an i-pod touch. He's really into music so Matt and I bought him a guitar and a book to see what he can learn. We are trying to get him some lessons set up this summer. He ended the night with one of the boys spending the night with him.

Happy 10th Landen. We love you and have enjoyed every year with you!!

I failed to mention one thing I learned this week. Helium is EXPENSIVE in Germany. I had a guitar balloon that I had ordered and took to have it filled up. It wasn't all that large... they wanted $25 for helium. Can you imagine? No thank you. It's evidently considered an environmental hazard around here. I stuck with the regular balloon bouquet for $20.

Mmmmm....Schokolade

2009-03-25T12:48:00.000+01:00

(I thought this was a cute picture of Matt and the kids waiting on the train.)

Yum! We went to Koln to the chocolate (schokolade) museum this past weekend with the kids. We've been there several times, but have just recently started riding the train a few places. It's a litte more costly than driving, but it's nice to have 2 adults to help with the kiddos and it's much more stress free than trying to find parking, etc. The train ride is very scenic along the river along with many castles appearing in the distance.

Anyway, I won't bore you with pictures from Koln that I've shared several times. I'll share a few of the chocolate museum though, since this was new to us. It was nice, but not just out of this world fascinating. The kids loved it, but Matt and I were a little disappointed after all the hoopla we had heard. We went on a self guided tour and then of course, we all picked us out a treat at the end of the tour.

Jordyn was so excited - a PURPLE cow!

Overall, the day was fun and the sun was shining which made it so much more enjoyable. We even got to take our jackets off for about an hour while we were walking around.... Sunshine, we love you! Please come back. I'm sitting here typing and looking out the window at it snowing and a white ground. UGH! Oh wait, I have one more picture.

Aren't these the cutest pretzel bunnies ever?

Still A Southern Girl

2009-03-17T14:44:00.000+01:00

Today I got to go help Hayden's kindergarten class out. They had a potato dig for St. Patrick's Day. I took them out in groups of 4 or 5 and let them dig away to find their very own potato in the dirt. Then, they got to take them inside and wash them and cook them to eat for a snack that afternoon. They had a blast and I had a few laughs myself.

One little girl continually asked me if I was Hayden's mom. She repeated a number of times...."Are you sure? You don't look like Hayden. " Then, the one that made me really laugh.... "I think you must be a cowgirl!" Get this, his name was Billy. ha, ha!

Once a Southern Girl, always a Southern Girl.

Sing, Sing a Song...

2009-03-10T15:14:00.000+01:00

Where, oh where is my wedding ring?
Oh where, oh where can it be?
My ring guard is in my jewelry box,
but my diamond is somewhere it shouldn't be!!!!!!!

My grandmother used to sing that song to me. Of course, it was about a dog in her version. My ring has to be somewhere in this house. I've offered the kids $5 and a bag of candy if they find it. They are downstairs playing their PS2. Maybe I need to up the offer?!

Please pray I find this thing! I'm beginning to lose hope - it's been almost 24hours. While you are at it, say a prayer for my grandma too.

***UPDATE - I FOUND IT!!****

Off Road!

2009-03-02T15:21:00.001+01:00

I'm continually learning things in my adult life. This weekends lesson, don't drive off the pavement into the grass if it's muddy. Yep... after Matt and a friend tried for about an hour to pull me out of the mud with no success, we had to resort to calling a German Tow Truck to come to our rescue. 120 Euro later, I was able to drive my car again.

It happened on base at the Middle School. The boys had back to back basketball games, so of course I was in a hurry to get from one game to the next. There were not spots left open in the parking lot, so I decided to swing around to the back. That's when the trouble came in. I had done this before, with no problem. But, that's when I decided to park 1/2 on the pavement and 1/2 on the grass. For some reason, on Saturday, the sun was shining and I was feeling good... I decided I would make a big loop around in the grass and be able to pull straight out after the game. Yep... I didn't realize how wet it was! As soon as my tires started spinning, I knew I had done it. Matt wasn't to happy with me but he kept his cool and rescued me. He dealt with the "car" while I headed to the basketball party with the kids. Of course, I had offered to take the cake and had to find a way to get to the commissary to pick it up and get us to the party. Luckily, my good friend was there and she rescued us as well.

On another note, I walked into the bathroom last night and Hayden and Jordyn were taking a bath. Jordyn was the dentist, and Hayden was the patient. It was cracking me up! Hayden was a really good sport. She also loves to brush his hair and anyone else who will let her. Though, I warn you... it hurts.

Step 1, Complete.

2009-02-23T11:30:00.000+01:00

We broke down and told the kids about Matt's upcoming deployment. We've debated and dreaded about when to tell them. We didn't want to tell them too soon, for fear of them having so much worry for such an extended amount of time. On the other hand, we wanted them to have enough time to digest it and spend some quality family time with Dad before he leaves.

I'm not sure why I was so fearful of telling them. Landen is older this time around and really understands how it will all play out. Maybe that's why. We were eating lunch and decided to spill it. Landen's reaction was pretty upbeat. We quickly followed the announcement with, "but we are going to AR" this summer for a long time! He sat there, Matt left the table and then I could see the wheels spinning in his head. He looked at me with big tears in his eyes and said, "but I thought they only had to go one time and dad already went." Unfortunately, as I fought back tears I had to share with him that some moms and dads have gone several times and we are lucky it is only for 6 months and not a full year.

Hayden's reaction was , "oh... man!" Then, he was off to play. He can't grab that concept of it yet, and he doesn't remember him being gone when he was 2 years old. I'll have more of an issue with him, when it all actually transpires. We calculate time by how many sleeps we have until an event. Matt explained it will be 180 sleeps.... that's the best way we can explain it to him now.

Jordyn, of course, has no clue. She doesn't understand. It's going to break my heart because she looks for daddy to come in the door every day. She asks for him the minute she wakes up and wants to know where daddy is a lot. Every time he leaves for a trip and comes back, she sits by him and hugs him and won't let him out of her sight. She's like his own personal stalker! I wonder what she will do after not 2 or 3 weeks of distance, but 6 months.

We'll get through it as every other family does. It's the same worries and fears that thousands of other mothers face, so I know I'm not alone. I don't have to like it though. Now, onto the next steps. We have wills to update, power of attorneys to get, issues to discuss, presents to figure out for Matt to give the kids before he leaves, car registrations to update, and my list is continually growing. The stress begins along with the anticipation of it. It's all starting to roll.... like it or not.

This and That

2009-02-18T13:13:00.000+01:00

There is really no theme to this post, it's just a mixture of random thoughts and what has been going on lately.

Matt made it back from the US and had a great time. He had the opportunity to visit Fort Smith and see his family one last time before he deploys. He hasn't been back since we moved over here and that's been about 21 months for him. I think it's the longest either of us have ever gone without a trip to Razorback country. I'm looking forward to my turn this summer. I am still in some serious denial that he is leaving again. Reality is slowly starting to set in... we are going to start making preparations soon. There are so many things to think about and get done before he leaves. At least I have started jotting down a list of a few things.

He returned with a super duper Valentine's present for me and all of the other miscellaneous things I asked him to come home with - 4 buttons, a long sleeved leotard, spanish peanuts, a bible for Hayden with his name on it, Spongebob DVD's, and more miscellaneous things. These are typical of the small things that frustrate me here because a) I can't seem to find them or b) there is one choice, and one choice only.

Matt also brought back a 2 1/2 X 3 1/2 picture frame. My sister made Jordyn a small cross stitch and brought it to her when she visited us in the fall. I haven't been able to frame it, so I asked Matt to bring something back. He pulled through with a .98 picture frame from where else... Walmart. I threw a few rhinestones on it and added a bow and wahh... lahh.. it will work for now. Thanks, Terri.

The boys are finishing up basketball season and we'll have a nice break before we begin baseball. Hayden has had a fantastic season and loves it. Landen's team has struggled quite a bit, but he has been a trooper and hung in there. It has been a good learning experience and we will just leave it at that. He's looking forward to baseball and hoping he gets on a more talented team.

We have been talking of taking a quick day trip to a US cemetery in Luxembourg. However, the two times we have tried we have awoken to snow and ice on the ground. One of these days, hopefully soon, we will make it there. On the weather note, we have had a lot more snow this season that last. It never accumulates a whole lot, it's just more of a constant thin layer of snow and ice. The boys aren't even really excited to see it anymore. It's funny how the excitement disappears once you take something for granted, isn't it?

I guess that's all of my random thoughts for now. Oh. Happy Birthday to my mom yesterday and Matt's dad today. We love you both!

2's

2009-02-05T16:12:00.000+01:00

Here's a little update on Jordyn. She's 2 years and 4 months old. Does that mean I have to start saying 2 1/2 year old? Not for another 2 months, right? Between tantrums and her repeating things 500 hundred times we try to manage some fun times. Her tantrums are loud, but very short lived.

She is afraid of everything! She doesn't like the doctor, the dentist, the pharmacy, dogs/cats, and she doesn't enjoy some strangers yet loves others. She didn't sleep with anything for the longest time. Yet now, she sleeps with everything she can manage - a baby or two, it's bottle, her purse, a brush, 2 to 3 blankets and sometimes other miscellaneous things. I don't know how she has room to sleep, but she does. She loves to talk on the phone no matter who is on the other line. She will have full on conversations with her play phones. She also loves to play with play dough.

We started her in gymnastics in January and I will be sure to get some video of that soon. It is mommy and me gymnastics so I'm going to have to recruit Matt to come watch and video at some point.

Her latest phrases are:

"Help"
"Mommy! Mommy!"
"Don't cry at gymnastics"
"You're mean"
"Mommy, I poo poo!"
"That's nice" with a head tilt
"Mommy! Mommy!"
"I want Patrick" (from Spongebob)
"Don't touch it. K?!"
"I don't want to play" (when she's going to the babysitter)
"I want to play Wii"
Did I mention "Mommy!"?

I know there are many more, but I can't think of them at the moment.

I'll close with a few pictures below of the kids watching the Super Bowl. We had to wait until Monday after school, but it wasn't so bad. We did miss daddy! Speaking of which, he called me today as he was going through the drive through at Sonic. Is that just cruel, or what? Ok, probably not to you, but when you've lived overseas for a few years and play the game of what we miss in the states, it's just cruel!

Kid Art

2009-02-01T10:12:00.001+01:00

I love looking at my kids art. I don't know why, but I never seem to take pictures of it. It really just dawned on me that I could make a whole file of pictures of my kids drawings and keep forever. I'm going to try and start doing that! Landen has always been a bit of an artist... I really think he has a little bit of talent in that area and he certainly didn't get it from me. My mother in law has a hidden talent of drawing... my brother can draw as well so maybe that's where he gets it. I really think my sister can do a little sketching herself... (Norma, I still want you to draw my kids for me and I'm going to keep bugging you about it :) I'm lucky enough to have a little art corner for the kids downstairs. It's really a little hallway beside the steps that we put a table and art supplies in. Of course, they usually end up drawing elsewhere. Oh well.

Anyway... here are a few sketches and maybe I'll start occasionally sharing some more. Landen is really into music as you can see. Hayden has really just started drawing a few picturs. He's never been one to color or draw so I get so excited when he actually brings me something he has worked hard on and is proud of. He's also starting to write his own sentences by sounding them out, which I love as well. Jordyn... well, we'll have to wait and see!

Landen's - age 6

Landen's more recent ones

Hayden's

"Water is good for you. Water is bad for you. Water is mad. " LOL!

Our Art Corner

Reminiscing

2009-01-29T19:40:00.000+01:00

I've been reminiscing through some pictures that we have taken over the last year and a half. Boy! We have really gotten to see a lot and I need to get them in some kind of a more organized order! I decided to post a few that I have probably shared before. I can't seem to find many of all the castles, but I have them buried in my files somewhere. It really is beautiful in the warmer months with all the trees, vineyards and flowers blooming. Oh... I yearn for summer!

Happy 35th!! and 62nd...and 6th....and 39th...

2009-01-23T12:42:00.000+01:00

I'm going to get all my birthday wishes out for the week in one post. So, Happy Birthday Matt (today), Dad (26th), Nicholas (27th) and Steve (30th). That's a lot of birthdays in the family for one week!

We didn't have much of a celebration... Matt came home for lunch and I cooked his favorite, chicken n' dumplings with a dessert of cherry cheese pie. Of course, his present that I ordered January 5th is still not here so we had to do the ole' wrapping up a picture of his new black coat. We got him a few other things, but nothing big. Tonight we have basketball pictures and are gonna order pizza... exciting, huh?

Happy Birthday to all the boys!!

Get Real

2009-01-20T21:09:00.000+01:00

Ok. Yep! We're still alive and kicking. I've been at a loss as for something to post lately. I don't know who reads this and who doesn't, but I know you can only read so much about my kids. Today I read a blog that challenged all of her fellow bloggers to "Get Real." Click on Becca's blog on my sidebar if you wish to read it. She's an excellent writer, by the way. Anyway, since I don't know what to post about, I'm going to take her up on it... so, here it goes.

10 Things - Get Real

1. I worry what other bloggers think about what I write. Unlike my sister, I know I'm not gifted in the creative writing field. When I started this blog, I really thought only my parents and in laws would read it.

2. Some people think I have it really tough as a military wife (including me!), but I know that I do not have it nearly as tough as a lot of military wives do. I have so much to be thankful for.

3. I have an intense fear of something happening to Matt and/or I, and our children being left without a parent. I create scenarios in my head of things that could happen. Yes, we have a will and life insurance so I know they would be taken care of.

4. I'm not near the good housekeeper that my mom is. My drawers are not perfectly straight and towels not near as neatly folded. I do try to keep it neat and tidy on the surface though.

5. I feel like I am "good" at several things, but not really talented at anything.

6. I frequently forget to tell my husband how much I love him and am not very good at showing affection.

7. My face, well chin has caused me more acne problems in my adult life than when I was a teenager! It's really annoying on many different levels.

8. I sometimes have a hard time controlling my temper with my children. I have to remind myself that I usually expect a lot out of them for their ages.

9. I instantly miss my husband the second he drives away from the house, even if he's only gone a couple of days. Suddenly, I'm awake until midnight when I'm usually in bed by 10 and asleep the minute my head hits the pillow. As much as he is gone, you would think I would be used to it by now.

10. It makes me really nervous to cook for company and I really don't enjoy entertaining at my house.

Going Green?

2009-01-09T15:33:00.000+01:00

Living in Germany has certainly taught us a lot about the environment. I can't say it was necessarily by choice, we were forced into it. However, it's not such a bad thing, really. I'm a believer that it's simply a matter of getting used to it. I won't lie, I'm not a full blown "Green" girl. But, I have made a few changes that I think I will keep with when we move back to the States.

Our latest environment improvement is probably one I won't stick with. They have made a believer of me out of buying smaller, more efficient cars. We'll never buy a Smart, but something smaller than what we are used to driving. This past week, though, we have converted to Germany's new law of only using mid grade or higher gasoline. I must admit, I was not a happy camper about this! At least gas prices are lower than they've been in a long time so I can't complain too much right now. I was just getting used to paying a little over $2, we were under $2 for one whole week (on base we get it at the US price). Now, we get to make the jump to the midgrade level. I know it's not that much difference in the grand scheme of things and it will be better for the environment, but I don't have to be happy about it. :-)

Some things that I think I will stick to are recycling (though maybe not to the degree we do it here). I've found it is pretty easy to recycle boxes - cereal boxes alone count for quite a bit of trash. Cans are not hard to do either. Magazines, newspapers, detergent containers... all pretty easy. Another thing I will try to stick to, though I don't know for sure is trying to use some of my "green" bags instead of so many plastic bags. Granted, I don't have enough for a big store run, but when I'm only buying a few bag fulls it's not so bad. The worst part for me is remembering to take them inside with me!

Another interesting tidbit that we learned this week is that it's NOT cheap to hunt around here! Like getting a drivers license (2000+ Euro plus, 25 - 45 hours of professional instruction, and 12 hours of theory!) it cost around 700+ Euro, initially to get a hunting license. This of course, doesn't include if you actually kill something. Nor does it include the 120 hour class you have to take complete with a written and oral exam that must be passed. The grand total gets up around 2000 Euro as well. I'm learning that not much is free in Europe. Though, I guess not much is free in America either, but at least it's a little cheaper!

Happy New Years! I'm a little behind...

2009-01-03T18:32:00.000+01:00

Yep! We're still alive and kicking. We have had a busy week and I haven't had time to post anything. It's been a nice change from our usually slow pace around here.

Christmas was great and pretty uneventful. Santa was good to everyone and Matt and I enjoyed watching the kids play all day with their new toys. The Rowland's eventually arrived, after a disappointing delay in the airport. They didn't get to come until a day later than we anticipated. This resulted in a quick overnight trip to Frankfurt for the whole family... I won't go into detail, but it was a fun and unexpected event.

After the Rowlands arrived and we had our Christmas, Matt and I headed off to London again for 2 nights alone. It was fantastic! I am becoming quite the nervous flier in my old age. It used to not bother me, but ever since Matt and I had a scary flight out of Miami a few years ago, I am a basket case. It seems to be getting worse and worse and I am already dreading my flight back to the states this summer. Maybe, with 3 kids it will keep my mind occupied!

London was as much fun this time as it was the first. We got to go inside and tour Westminster Abbey which was fascinating to me. I did not realize the number of tombs in that place! It was fascinating to see the chair the kings have been crowned on and the alter where Princess Diana's casket laid. I vividly remember watching that on tv, several years ago. We lived in South Carolina at the time and were childless. The rest of the trip was spent browsing through the enormous shops. I've never seen so much shopping with such a HUGE department store. Not one... but several. You can get lost in these places and they put Macy's (in NY) to shame. Incredible! The other highlight was going to see the play Chicago. I loved it and Matt enjoyed it to. I'm so glad we got to do that. I was amazed at the number of people in jeans and sweatshirts, as Matt and I were dressed up and looking snazzy. I wish we had some pictures without our coats on but it was just too cold. We ended the trip with the beautiful display of fireworks over the London Eye. It was crowded, but really very calm. I anticipated a lot of drunken behavior, but really did not see too much. However, the morning we left part of the Underground was closed due to a person underneath a train. I'm guessing that may have had to do with a full night of partying for somebody...

We came back to the house being in tact and the kids were all kicking. Oh, did I mention that before we left we spent the day at the doctor with Jordyn who had a bladder infection? It was the first one since her stint in the hospital when we first moved here. I certainly didn't want to end up back in the hospital. She got antibiotics and is doing much better. Nana and Pops took good care of all three of them. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Yesterday, we took a train to Koln, Germany so that the Rowlands got to see at least one new thing this trip. You really must stay longer next year! It was great fun, despite Jordyn having one of those lovely cranky days. The boys made up for her.

2008 has come and gone and we have a lot to be thankful for. It was a fun year of traveling (Garmich, Germany, Holland, Paris - 3 times, Normandy, London). The kids adjusted nicely to their new school and we have been fortunate to have had family come to visit on a fairly regular basis. 2009 is going to be a big year for our family, as many of you know Matt is deploying again this spring. I'm sure there will be many trials and tribulations, but I know we will make it through. Thank you, God for a wonderful year!

I know the slide show is long. Sorry... I just have so many pictures!

Not So Merry Christmas...

2008-12-22T20:44:00.000+01:00

Well, Santa finally decided to come to Germany. He was at the commissary this week so we decided to pay him a little visit. Landen was a good sport about it (he knows it's not the REAL Santa. Yes, he's questioning if Santa is even real. I think he knows, but I refuse to play along.) Jordyn on the other hand, wasn't much of a fan. I knew before we got there that she probably wasn't going to like him. Man, that was an understatement. She saw him from outside the window and panicked. She clutched my neck, grabbed her arms around me and screamed! Matt took her and did a quick walk by Santa as fast as he could, while I snapped a couple of pictures of the boys. Whew!

Today, we had to make a return trip to the commissary. Jordyn freaked out the second we pulled up, so I had to make a fast entrance into the exit in order to avoid Mr. Claus.

Merry Christmas to everyone who reads my blog. Thanks for reading! I didn't send out any Christmas cards this year, so this will have to suffice.

Hayden's Christmas Program

2008-12-18T20:42:00.000+01:00

Matt and I had the joy of going to Hayden's Christmas singing at his kindergarten class today. They have been working hard this past month, learning lots of words to Christmas songs. They included 2 German songs, a Spanish song, a song using sign language, and of course the classics. Hayden got to play a solo with his jingle bell on one whole song! I was so proud of him. His face was a little flushed of embarrassment, but he did a great job. I got most of it on video, but don't have it uploaded. For now, here's a few pictures. I just love his teachers!

They also made all the parents a handmade calendar and we have several new Christmas ornaments for our Christmas tree.

Last Minute Shoppers

2008-12-12T12:46:00.000+01:00

I had this vision to do a post about all of my favorite toys the kids have had. I thought I would do it back in November, yet here it is less than 2 weeks from Christmas and I still haven't done it. So, though most of you are probably finished shopping, here are a few more thoughts for your little ones. If you are done this year, maybe you can hold on to them for next year.

There are so many toys we have bought the kids that they don't play with. Then, there are those few that every child has found much joy with. The ones I am showing can pretty much all be found at Walmart or Target. Here are some of my favorites:

This s a fisher price car racer. This one was bought back when Landen was a toddler and I know they are new and improved, but all 3 of my kids have enjoyed watching the cars race down the ramp time and time again.

Aquadoodle. I bought this for Hayden a couple of years ago and he and Jordyn both seem to love it. It is especially good for toddlers since they enjoy drawing on everything but paper. There are tons of different designs and types now... we have the "Farmer in the Dell" version which plays the song as they are drawing and makes animal sounds.

I'm still trying to figure out little girl toys, but Jordyn plays with her umbrella stroller constantly. She loves to push anything and everything in it and has played with it for almost a year straight.

Yoho Diablo. This was bought by my brothers family for Landen last year. It is definitely for an older child (Landen was 8, but he is pretty persistent at things like this and will work until he gets it.) Some 8 year olds may get frustrated. If your child loves some good yo yo tricks (walking the dog, around the world, rock the baby, etc.) he/she would love this.
Star Wars light sabers! If they love Star Wars, they'll love these. The boys have 5 of them floating around the house, some are more expensive with lights and sounds and some are the $10 version without the bells and whistles. They dress up and play Star Wars a lot. Surprisingly, they hold up fairly well and my kids have given them a good beating.

Jordyn helped model this one. Guitar Hero. The boys have played and played this and I love that it is peaking their interest in music. Again, it's for the older, more coordinated kids. Hayden has mastered it on the easy level and medium level where Landen is working on the hardest level. It does, however feature rock songs which some of you may not want your kids exposed to and I don't like what the "rockers" are wearing in some of the songs. Other than that, it's a lot of fun for all ages. Yes, even mom and dad (I'm terrible at it, though!)

Nintendo DS. These, along with i-pods, have been life savers in the car on long trips. The kids (lots of fun when cousins come too) can link up and play each other.

Magtastik. These are similar to magnetix, which I know some have been recalled for children swallowing. However, these are extremely large and not able to go in a toddlers mouth. They are loads of fun and have provided a lot of entertainment for Hayden and Jordyn. I wish I had more. Landen enjoys the smaller (more dangerous) magnetix. They were exclusively at Target when I bought them, but I have no idea if they sell them anymore.

Only a few more... are you bored?

Shake N' Go Cars/Track. I don't have the track pictured because it's not put together right now, but I highly recommend this toy! The track assembles easily (even with number guides on the bottom) and little kids can shake the cars to make them go. Several children can play at a time if you have several cars with it. It was fairly inexpensive when I bought it and has been well worth the money. I bought Jordyn a pink shake n go car for Christmas, she loves to play on it too.

There are both boy and girl sets of these and different sports. The boys have had fun setting up the figurines and making "plays" on the cloth football field. I know there are soccer ones in boy and girl. I'm not sure what else is available. Again, this is more for a 6 and up crowd, probably. I don't usually go by the recommended age on the box :-)

Kid Laptops. Again, fun for all 3 of my kids. Landen plays the games, though he is getting a little too old for this toy. Hayden loves it and Jordyn just likes to push the buttons and listen to it make sounds. It really is a "teaching" tool and fun at the same time. Again, there's all different versions of these.

The last one isn't a toy, but one of my favorite things. So, for the few men that read this... it's an idea for your wife. :-) You can buy them in many jewelry stores, or order them online which is how I got mine. If you have more children, you can add on a strand as needed. I had to do this after I had Jordyn. I really love it and wear it often.

So, there ya go. Those are my thoughts on Christmas presents. I would love to hear about your favorite toy!

2008-12-06T13:40:00.000+01:00

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I can't believe my brother and his family are already gone. Time flew by, but we had a great time together. We got to visit Christmas markets, play in the snow, they went to Paris, and best of all we got to hang out at the house and just visit together. Thanks for coming! We already miss you.

We love you! See you this summer :-) Now, we're ready to see Nana and Pops in a few weeks!!

On another note, December 6 is a German holiday called St. Nicholas' Day. As in many other European countries, on the eve of Dec. 6th children place a shoe or boot by the fireplace. During the night, St. Nicholas, the patron saint of children, hops from house to house carrying a book of sins in which all of the misdeeds of the children are written. If they have been good, he fills the shoe or boot with delicious holiday edibles. If they have not been good, their shoe is filled with twigs.

They're Here!

2008-11-28T20:06:00.000+01:00

My brother and his family arrived on Tuesday morning and we've been having fun since they walked in the door. Time is flying, as it always does with company. I've really been missing my family and AR, so it's been nice seeing some familiar faces for a few days. We had a great Thanksgiving meal, complete with a turkey we bought from Popeyes! Our oven is tiny, so we had to save room for the side dishes and pies. I highly recommend the turkey, it had a great flavor and there was no stress in the kitchen.

So far, they've seen Koln, Trier, and Luxembourg and boy has it been cold! They are heading to Paris for a couple of nights in a few days, so they are making the best of their trip. There are lots of Christmas markets around, so we've been trying some yummy new foods. The kids are getting along great and everyone is in good spirits. Caroline just cracks me up.... and Nicholas cracks me up talking about Caroline. Man, I've missed them.

Here's a few pictures... Hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving.

SNOW!

2008-11-22T12:43:00.000+01:00

Well, we got our first snow of the season. The kids were up and running around bright and early. They had to get outside before it all melted! Of course, today the sun comes out. It never comes out, but I guess the snow invited it along. Anyway, we've had a fun day of playing and sledding. It is supposed to snow some more tonight and tomorrow. We've gotten a couple of inches, but the roads are already cleared up. We saw them salting last night before we went to bed.

Other than that, there's not much new. Matt's going to have to go to another month long course in the US before he deploys. Ugh. As if 6 weeks of training wasn't already enough... 6 weeks here, 4 weeks there.... 6 months here, 6 months there.... Ok. Sorry, I digressed.

Derek and Shannon, bring your coats! They are coming to visit next week and we can't wait to see them.

I'm off to shop at the bizarre at the base. It happens twice a year. Vendors from all over Europe come in and set up booths of fun and interesting items. Belgium chocolates, Italian wine, Polish pottery, you get the idea... I'm sure I'll find something to spend some money on.

Happy Veteran's Day!

2008-11-11T18:14:00.000+01:00

I usually don't post anything for this holiday. Today, however I feel I should. Happy Veteran's Day to my husband, and any other Veterans out there that read this.

The military has brought a lot of positive things to our family. I tend to focus on a lot of the negative and thought I would share some of the positives for a change. Growing up, I decided I wasn't going to marry anyone in the military OR a police officer. HA! God showed me, right? I got a double whammy... military AND law enforcement (OSI.) Ok. So, that taught me not to make decisions too soon and never say never. That was lesson #1 learned.

I could go into detail about story after story and lesson after lesson, but I won't. The military has been good to us, overall. Yes, it has its ups and downs, but overall I can't complain. We have gotten to travel and see the world, have free gym memberships, and make new friends all over the US. If it wasn't for the military, I wouldn't have my special friends that I still keep in contact with. I've learned not to count my chickens before they hatch and not to worry about things until they actually happen. Well, I'm still learning that part.

I've gotten to buy/rent a new house every few years which calls for new decorations. I've been lucky enough to stay home with my kids, and my husband has ALWAYS supported me. I've had wonderful support from my family and friends as well. I have proven to myself, that I am a fairly strong person even though if you know me, I cry at the drop of a hat. I've also been fortunate enough for my husband to be with me through all 3 births of our children. A lot of military families are not so lucky.

I'm thankful we have men and women who sacrifice their lives for our country. Matt, I don't tell you enough, but I am VERY proud to call you my husband. While I don't understand someone "wanting" to go to war, I have come to understand it takes a special person. You are one of those and I love you. Now, I'm trying to take one of those lessons learned about not worrying until it happens, but I already fear the time which is coming when you will leave us again to head off to Afghanistan in the Spring. We have gotten through so much together, and I know we will get through another deployment. It will make us stronger, right honey?

Saint Martin's Day

2008-11-08T20:00:00.001+01:00

(waiting for the parade to begin with their American neighbor friend)

I don't think I posted on this last year. If I did, I know I didn't have any pictures. After living here over a year, we are slowly figuring out what to do when. It only takes a couple of years to figure all this out, and then it's time to move! Last year, we had heard about it but didn't venture out. This year, I just happened to see my neighbors daughter carrying her lantern so I asked her when the celebration was. She told me, so we decided to go check it out.

(Herforst Church)

(before the parade, outside of the church)

(before the parade, these are some of our German neighbors who are very sweet!)

The celebration is Saint Martin's Day. I'm putting an explanation of it at the bottom of the post, if you are interested. In our village, the celebration began at 5:30pm at the church. We didn't attend the service, but stood outside and waited with several others until the service ended and the children appeared with their lanterns. It was a huge turnout. We saw every single one of our neighbors along with their families. The band played songs as we marched through the village with the children and their lanterns. The kids had fun, even though they didn't have their own lanterns this year. A couple of friends shared with Hayden so that made him happy. Next year, we will have our own lanterns! Anyway, we marched until we ended up at a huge bonfire. The band played a few more songs and there was hot chocolate and other goodies to buy. At the very end, they passed out free pretzels to all of the children. Of course, the boys LOVED that part.

(Bonfire)

(Yummy pretzels!)

It was a beautiful night of perfectly crisp weather. Happy Saint Martin's Day! Here's the details...

German people celebrate the goodness of Martin who was a Roman Knight and later became a Bishop of Tours in the 4th century. According to legend, Martin saved a beggar’s life by sharing his cloak on a freezing winter night. This incident changed his life so much that from that day forward, he dedicated himself to the poor. People celebrate St. Martin’s Day throughout Germany towns in yearly Lantern Parades. A horseback rider, dressed as St. Martin leads the parade. He is followed by a band playing St. Martin songs. The children and their parents enjoy singing these well known songs. In some towns, people continue a tradition of raffling off geese that are carried in a wagon during the parade. Along with the raffle, the parade concludes with a big bonfire, during which sugar pretzels are passed out to the children. People can buy lanterns at most German stores. Some parents help their children to make their own lanterns and some schools have a lantern making contest. It is worth taking the time to find out when the St. Martin’s parade takes place so that your children can also participate.

Halloween Hype

2008-11-01T12:59:00.000+01:00

I have lots of pictures to post, so the easiest way to do it is through a slide show. I don't think the pictures need much explanation. We started at a school carnival, moved on to a Halloween Party and ended with a Turkey Trot (race) this morning. The kids had fun and it was COLD! Jordyn did fairly well, considering all the scary costumes. She cried some, but not too bad. I wasn't sure what to expect with her this year!

Landen drew the awesome pumpkin design and Matt carved it. I was impressed! Hayden and Landen both ran the Turkey Trot - 1.2 miles. I was so proud of Hayden for running pretty much the whole way with a smile on his face. Landen got 4th place for the 4th grade, so he received a medal. :-)

I hope your Halloween was as fun as ours...

Growing Up

2008-10-24T14:40:00.000+02:00

Jordyn's learned she can climb into her bed. However, not without injury....

I think it's time for a toddler bed. (Of course, I was wearing my nice white Talbots shirt. :-)

Who Wins the Prize?

2008-10-19T21:03:00.000+02:00

I never have posted the pictures of our soccer season, so I thought I would take the time to post a few. The boys both had a fun season and enjoyed playing in the cold and rain a lot of Saturdays. It's officially over, so the boys both have a break until basketball practice starts in December.

Hayden made several goals throughout the season for his 5 & 6 year old team and had a lot of fun. Landen played for the 9 & 10 year old league. He played goalie quite a bit and came on strong on offense the second half of the season, scoring many goals himself. He was also voted MVP for his team by his coaches and teammates! He was happily surprised.... Of course, I forgot my camera when they handed out the medals. Sorry, Landen. I need to scan his portrait picture that he had made with Hayden. I'll try to do that soon.

I have many more pictures like the ones below of London, but I'm tired of waiting on them to load. Who wins the prize for having their eyes closed the most?? Hayden. Congratulations!! You win for fakest smile, too. lol

Planes, Trains and Automobiles

2008-10-16T09:59:00.001+02:00

The London Eye

Buckingham Palace

Big Ben

Harrod's in the background

Kensington Palace (State Apartments)

We made it back from our trip to London and are back into the swing of things, once again. We all made the trip safely. I've figured out that I really despise flying. Matt and I had an engine backfire incident back a few years ago, and I thought for sure we were going down. Every since that flight, I've been petrified! I'm going to have to be drugged next time... oh wait. I have kids to tend to. Well, I guess I'll figure it out. I also learned that Jordyn will need to be drugged along with me. lol

Back to London. I'm not going to go into great detail. Honestly, I'm getting a little blogged out. We started our trip the first day in a car, onto a plane, then a train, onto a subway, toured on a bus and ended the trip in a taxi. I guess we were lacking the boat. We got to see all the famous sights - Big Ben, the London Eye (though we didn't ride it because the lines were horrific), Piccadilly Circus, Trafalgar Square, Harrods & Hamley's, Buckingham Palace, Kensington Palace, Westminster Abby and more. Landen and Matt went to the London Dungeon one morning, while the two little ones and I played at the Princess Diana Memorial Park. Other than that, we stuck together. We thought the city as a whole, reminded us a lot of New York City.

I had always heard the food was very bland, but we really didn't experience that. However, we really stuck to Americanized restaurants. Landen was set he was going to eat at the Hard Rock Cafe, so that was one meal. One night we got fish and chips at a local place by our hotel and it was really good. For lunch, we picked stuff up along the way so we didn't really sit down to eat. We ended our trip at the Rainforest Cafe, which Jordyn didn't care too much for. She was petrified of the gorilla we were sat next too. I'm talking gripping my neck so hard and crying that a manager came over and asked if we were ok. I told her she didn't like the monkey (she wouldn't let me pull her away long enough to get into the high chair), so they asked if we would like to move to another table. They found one that was nice and secluded so she couldn't see any of the jungle friends around us. After that, she was fine. Whew! Halloween should be fun.

The driving on the opposite side of the road wasn't as strange as I thought it would be. Now, if we had actually been driving ourselves, maybe it would have been. The only thing that was hard about that was looking the correct way when we were trying to cross the street. I almost killed Jordyn, Landen and I one time for looking the wrong way. We also learned that they walk on the left side of stairs, etc.... we always found ourselves on the right side as hard as we tried to go left. I didn't think the driving was near as crazy as it is in Paris.

Let me see ... some of our blunders included:

1) Jordyn peed on me in the subway. Just as we got into town and were on our last leg to the hotel, she told me she needed to potty. I assured her it was ok because she had a pull up on and mommy couldn't find a potty. She was in my lap... suddenly my leg felt warm. I look down and evidently her pull up was NOT properly covering the needed place and there I sat in pee. Fun. She didn't have any other "accident" the rest of the trip and even slept through 2 nights dry!

2) We got ready to buy something and discovered we had left our money at the hotel.

3) We bought the kids a toy at Hamley's toy store. Hayden chose a boomerang, which he promptly opened and played with in our hotel room. The window was cracked, I mean maybe a couple of inches. Yep. The boomerang went out the window onto another rooftop. There was no getting to it. Of course, we made it back to the store to buy another one.

4) We tried to go to Westminster Abbey Cathedral where the coronations occur and Princess Diana's funeral was held. We got there and had just missed the last entrance time at 1:30. It didn't open again until Monday so I didn't get to see inside, to my disappointment.

5) The morning we left we were going to catch the subway, only to find out it was closed so early in the morning. According to the brochure, it was ok but we were further down the line than the brochures, or something. Anyway, we took a last minute taxi and still made our plane.

I'll probably think of more to share later. At least this is a start. I'll add a few more pictures, as well.

Westminster Abbey Cathedral

Our Hotel

Mind the Gap!!!!!

Happy Birthday, Jordyn!!

2008-10-06T10:43:00.000+02:00

Bear with me while I dote on my little girl. She's 2 today. T W O. 2. How did that happen so quickly? Time flies when your having fun??

Most of you know I wanted a girl so badly. I never thought it would be an issue when I was growing up. I just thought I would have a boy and a girl and that would be that. It didn't occur to me until I was married that the possibility of having a little girl may not happen. After all, I married into an all boy family. :-) When I had Landen, I truely thought he was going to be a girl. I even felt a little disappointment after I found out he was a boy. Isn't that terrible of me? Awful, I know. I can't imagine not having such 2 cute and adorable little boys running around my house. They are everything to me. After suffering through 3 miscarriages post Landen, I soon learned that I was lucky to have any baby at all and it was truely a gift from God that he blessed us with.

I also knew growing up (ok dreamed) that I would have 3 children. I grew up with 3, so I'm sure that's why I imagined that. After two boys, I really had to decide did I REALLY want a 3rd baby? Even if it was another boy? The answer... yes. I did. I've always loved babies and I have several friends with 3 boys. So, I figured I might as well join the group and have 3 boys of my own.

Fast forward to ultrasound day. My sister in law did one a little early since she's a radiologist. Nice, I know! She looked and looked after I plopped on the table and told her to show me the "pecker." hee hee. She laughed and looked and looked. She even got someone else to look because I don't believe she believed it herself. She couldn't find one. It was a GIRL! I sat in disbelief as she and I went to eat lunch. I couldn't even eat I was so excited and a little skeptical because it was so early. When I dropped her back off at work, she said... "You want to go look again?!" So, off we went. Yep. No boy parts had grown over lunch. G I R L.

I was giddy with excitement and have been every since that day. I would have loved another little boy too, I know. But, a girl in the house was going to mean baby dolls and pink clothes. A change from trucks and hotwheels. Who are we kidding, she is probably going to be a tomboy with 2 brothers, I know. But, until she begins to choose for herself she will wear bows and cute little dresses. I'm obsessed with bows and she FINALLY has enough hair that it actually NEEDS to be brushed a little bit.

Jordyn you are all I had ever hoped for. Your brothers absolutely love and adore you. They are so good with you. You love to crawl into Landen's lap and let him nurture you. Though, you and Hayden have a bit of a love/hate relationship. You LOVE your daddy and want to be at his side at all times. I think your daddy's heart melts a little more each time you give him a hug and a kiss. He never thought he would have a little girl, either.

We celebrated yesterday with just a little party of our family. I debated about inviting a few and just decided you would probably be happier without all the hoopla. Maybe next year we'll invite a couple of friends. She loved opening her presents and took her time as she had to play with each one along the way.

Happy Birthday, Jordyn. We love you and I look forward to the many years to come with you. You are my angel (even when you may act like the devil... just kidding.)

Thank you, God for our 3 healthy children. Forgive me for when I forget that.

Paris, The Conclusion

2008-10-03T21:23:00.000+02:00

I really don't think I have much else to say about our findings in Paris. The last day consisted of us waking up and heading back to the Champs Elysee for some souvenir shopping. We also found another quaint little cafe and enjoyed some delicious French Onion Soup. It was the best soup I've ever had in my whole life!

We headed back to the Eiffel Tower for a few last pictures and then decided to walk toward the Statue of Liberty. It was a little further than we thought on foot, but we eventually made it there and took a few pictures. There weren't many tourists around this area... it was pretty much us and a few locals. The Statue of Liberty is smaller than the NY version, but other than that it looked pretty identical.

We made it back home about 8:00 pm that night. Terri, it was a memory I will never forget with you. I'm so glad we did it, even if we are both broke now! Thanks for a good time. I love ya! If you have a sister, plan a weekend get away with her. It doesn't have to be to Paris (though it was nice!) There's nothing like good ole' sister time.

Paris Trip, Day 2

2008-10-02T10:16:00.000+02:00

I'm trying to get all this posted because Jordyn's birthday is next week, I want to post soccer pictures at some point and we are heading to London in a week so I'll have even more to share!

Day 2: Let me see what I can remember. First and foremost, we slept in. Yep! We slept until 8:20 I think. It was the first time in a LONG time that I was in bed at my leisure and could get up when I wanted, so I took advantage. We got ready and were on our way by about 9:30. First stop was the Eiffel Tower. I've posted many pictures of it before so I'll refrain on this post. The sun was in our way that morning so we had to return for more pictures later anyway.

We then headed on foot to the Champs Elysee and ate at Lauderee. It was delicious! Thanks for the recommendation, Jill. I enjoyed a scrumptious breakfast and Terri got a sandwich. It was so much fun sitting in that little cafe and watching people while enjoying our food. Hot chocolate came with my breakfast, and can I just say it was a pure chocolate bar melted into a cup.R I C H, but delicious. I had to share it with Terri because I couldn't finish it. This was one of my favorite things we did. We also indulged in some macaroons later in the day, which I highly recommend.

I forgot to mention that on our way to the Champs Elysee, we passed right by the tunnel that Princess Diana was in her fatal wreck. I had wanted to find this and had been near it before, but never stopped and realized it was the actual tunnel - Pont De l'Alma.

Afterwards, we headed to the Louvre. It is enormous on the outside, and even bigger once you get in that place! I am not much of a museum lover, but I really wanted to see the Mona Lisa. We headed inside, and went straight to it. Afterward, I just followed Terri wherever she wanted to go because she loves this stuff. Are we really sisters? Yes. Apparently, we are. Anyway, she would have LOVED to stay longer, but the descriptions were not written in English so this sped up the tour significantly. We walked in that place for 2 1/2 straight hours and still did not see it all. I enjoyed it a little more than I thought I would and I tried not to rush her too much. Her story will probably be different... :) Oh, and I tripped and about made a huge scene in there! I almost fell into some glass... I'm talking, it was NOT a graceful shake it off trip. It was a clumsy stumble over an elevated surface that I about killed myself on and other people laughed! As did I.

As far as the Mona Lisa, I had been told it was very small. So, I expected a tiny painting on the wall - like an 8x10 or something. I was happily surprised when we got there because it was bigger than I anticipated. It hung alone on a wall in the middle of the room. Of course, people were everywhere and you had to fight your way up for a better look. We kind of stayed back and took what pictures we could.

After the Louvre, we headed to Notre Dame. We were both exhausted at this point from all the walking. We snipped at each other a time or two, but never got too angry with each other. After a coke for each of us we both perked up and went on well into the evening. I had been to Notre Dame, but not gone inside. The line was always very long, however this day it wasn't too bad and it moved quickly. Once we got inside, it was beautiful but looked very similar to the cathedrals in Trier and Koln that I have posted before. Nonetheless, I was happy to go inside and we enjoyed sitting in the cathedral for a little R and R.

We stopped at a few shops after this and were on a quest to find Terri's Hard Rock Cafe Paris pin. She has a collection and was determined to get one in Paris. Whew. She better enjoy that pin! Along our way, we found a whole new shopping district full of the locals. We then found the "china town" of Paris. It was dark by this point and we had to get the GPS out of our bag for some help. Our journey was interesting and I'll just leave it at that. We eventually got to Hard Rock and then found the Opra House which was right down the street. It was beautiful! We just happened to catch a glimpse of it on our way to Hard Rock so that was an added bonus to our pin quest.

We got back to the hotel around 10:30 that night and crashed... that bed never felt so good! One more day to post.

Paris Trip, Day 1

2008-10-01T16:04:00.000+02:00

I know I've posted pictures of Paris on a few other occasions, so I'm going to try and post only the "new" sights I got to experience, along with a few others. Terri and I headed out in our car on Day 1 around 7:00 am. Terri didn't have her international drivers license (which I bothered her about the whole time) so the driving was all left up to me. Yes, I drove in Paris and we survived. If you have been to Paris, you are probably impressed. Those of you who haven't, just trust me when I say the driving is CRAZY. They don't believe in lanes, they just go... it's not my style, but I did it! We even got gas along the way, all by ourselves.

Anyway, we arrived in Paris, checked in our hotel and were off to Versailles by about 1:30.
As you know, the Palace of Versailles was where Marie Antoinette and Louis XIV dwelled. It took us about a 30 - 45 minutes train ride (including stops) to get to Versailles. We only ran into one obstacle on this leg of the journey. We failed to get our RER (train) ticket, because it let us use our Paris Subway ticket to get onto the train. However, when we got off our ticket wouldn't register so we held everyone behind us up, while purchasing the correct ticket and heading on our way. There was a man standing there with tickets, so obviously this is a usual occurrence or they wouldn't devote one employee solely to this task.

I went ahead and did a slide show of the Palace. I really don't feel like the pictures capture the true elegance of the Palace. This place was ENORMOUS and GORGEOUS. It consists of the actual Palace, then grounds in the back which lead to the Kings Estate and Queens Estate where they retreated to be away from the people of the palace. It was about a 30 minute walk from the Palace to the Estates, and of course you had to purchase separate tickets for each or one huge pass for the entire estate. The appearance of the front of the Palace was a little disappointing as they were doing construction and had fake pictures for the missing parts along with all the construction equipment. But, once we got inside it was nothing but pure elegance. I can't imagine living my every day life there. Wow.

One last thing that was a little distracting inside was the Jeff Koonz art exhibit. His "art" which I showed a few pictures of was over the entire palace. It really distracted from the rooms and our pictures, but we made the best of it. I just don't get "Art" sometimes.

Here's the slideshow. Let me know if you have any questions! Also, be checking Terri's blog (on the sidebar) as I'm sure she'll post much more of the history than I care to.

Back to Normal

2008-09-30T16:42:00.000+02:00

We're back to normal, if that exist. I took my sister to the airport this morning in Frankfurt. Matt is back home and it is just the 5 of us again, after about 2 months. It's cold and rainy outside and the kids and I are in our pj's at 4:00pm. Tonight I am going to enjoy watching tv with my husband after the kids go to bed. We have LOTS of shows on the DVR to catch up on. Thank goodness for DVR's!

Terri and I had a fantastic time in Paris and I got to do some new things that I haven't done before. I have tons of pictures to sort through and share, so I'll have several new posts coming up. We went to the Palace of Versailles, inside the Louvre and ate at a few cafe's on the Champs Elysee. It was so nice to slow down and enjoy it a little, even though our backs and feet hurt from all the walking. Stay tuned....

Jordyn had her first day at the babysitter's today, as well. Matt had to take her because I was well on my way to Frankfurt. He called and told me she was crying and screaming his name when he left her. But, when I picked her up Ms. Allison said she cried for about 2 minutes and was perfectly happy after that. It seems like all went well and she will head back on Thursday. Yeah for both of us, and Matt. lol!

Terri, I will miss you and I had a fantastic time with you. Thanks for all the entertainment, peanut brittle and playing with the kids. We love you and hope your trip back home was uneventful!!

In Memory of Uncle Glenn

2008-09-23T13:48:00.002+02:00

It is with sadness that I remember my Uncle Glenn Brown today. He went to be with the Lord in the wee hours of the morning. He suffered from ALS and has had a difficult journey over the past couple of years. Please pray for my cousins: Fanya, Ryan, Ginger and Crystal and my Aunt Donna as they get through this week and the many weeks to come. I wish that I could be there to give you all a hug. He was a great man and will always be cherished by our family.

Ouch!

2008-09-18T09:21:00.000+02:00

Yep. It hurt. She tripped over a bag that was next to the bleachers at soccer practice last night. Of course, she went chin first into the bleacher that was missing its safety guard on the end of it. I would say this is her first BIG boo boo. Ouch!

Travel With Terri

2008-09-17T15:33:00.000+02:00

Can you tell school has begun and I am actually busy for a change?? Breakfast, school, tour guide, lunch, housework, homework, soccer, dinner, bed. That's about it, to sum our days. It's been a welcome change from the summer. The boys are slowly adjusting to their new routines after a long and lazy summer and so am I.

Terri has been here two full weeks now and we have managed to travel to a few more places. She's seen the majority of what I "know" to show her around this area. We've been to Cochem, Bernkastle, Bitburg, Trier, Ramstein/Kaiserslautern, several castles, Luxembourg, and Koln. We are going to venture into the corner of Belgium tomorrow and see what we can find. I would love to take her to Holland and spend a few days, but it just won't work out with the kids being in school and Matt being gone. We will get to end on a high note to Paris, just the two of us. We are really looking forward to that! Check out Terri's blog on my sidebar for more pictures of our travels. She will be updating it soon.

I'm posting a few pictures of the last week. Jordyn has been fairly good at most of the places, with the exception of Cochem. That was just NOT a fun day for any of us, thanks to her. A toddler will be a toddler. I will try and get some soccer pictures of the boys this weekend.

Only 4 more sleeps until Daddy comes home! The 6 weeks have gone pretty smoothly and a lot has happened since he left. We can't wait to give him a big ole' hug and actually talk to him in person. The kids have barely been phased by his absence with the exception of the first week or two. Once we got in our routine, they hit their stride and have been so busy they don't have time to think about him being gone too often. It's amazing to me how much military kids have to endure, adapt and overcome. I never had to face anything that hard as a child myself, so I have much admiration for them.

Oh, yeah. I got pooped on. That's always a nice way to start out the day. :-)

Luxembourg

2008-09-09T20:21:00.000+02:00

Here are a couple of pictures of us in Luxembourg. Yes, it was chilly. Yes, it rained. However, we had fun anyway and that is Terri's favorite place so far! I wish we could have stayed a little longer, but the weather just wasn't cooperating.

I know I've posted pictures of Luxembourg before, but here are a few more of new views we found. It's about 50 minutes from our house. We still haven't gotten to the American Cemetery in Luxembourg, but its on my list of things to do. Somehow, that list keeps growing and growing.

School is still going good, despite Hayden already having to miss a day of kindergarten. To make a long story short, he went to the doctor yesterday and has a double ear infection. He's on antibiotics and getting better. Here are a few extra pictures from earlier. The first one is of Landen with his teacher at open house.

This one is of Hayden riding the bus for the first time to school today. Boy, that was hard letting him get on that BIG bus and drive away from me. He's just so little. Thankfully, I trust Landen to look after him. He's a good big brother (when they aren't fighting, lol).

This Is Better

2008-09-07T20:35:00.000+02:00

I think I'm sticking to this one for a while. I'll post some pictures of our quick trip to Luxembourg in the rain, tomorrow. Here's a picture of Jordyn licking her spoon clean of cookie dough that Aunt Terri made. Yum! (I've decided that the black shirt fits her personality right now.)

Be Patient

2008-09-07T16:30:00.001+02:00

I'm playing with my background and really don't like this at all. I'll get it adjusted one day... :)

You're Gonna Miss This...

2008-09-02T11:31:00.000+02:00

Well, the BIG day finally arrived. Kindergarten! Hayden was so excited over the weekend and couldn't wait. He was so giddy and excited and so cute. My alarm went off this morning and I jumped in the shower before waking the boys up. Before I knew it, we were off to school. He is going to ride the bus with Landen starting next week, but I wanted to take and pick him up until he is comfortable. The pictures show our morning...

Getting ready:

Waiting patiently until time to go:

A picture with mommy before we go:

It's finally time to go:

In front of school:

In line (that's his teacher - Mrs. Tovar):

Waving Bye:

Crying Mommy on the way home:

You would have thought it was a funeral after the kids went in. Mommies were crying everywhere. I mean BOO HOOING!!!! Yes, of course tears rolled down my face, but I held it 1/2 way together until I got to the car. Then, I lost it and cried the entire way home. I turned the radio on to get my mind off of it and guess what it plays? A country song (we only have one English speaking channel geared to Americans so we get a variety) called You're Gonna Miss This. I don't even know who sings it, but this made it 10 times worse for me! If you know the song I am talking about, you know what I mean. For those of you that don't, its about a daddy talking to his little girl about slowing down and enjoying life. Life goes by fast, you're gonna miss these moments of dropping your kids at school and screaming children while you're talking on the phone. Before you know it, you're kids are 30 years old, etc... You get the idea.

I can't wait to pick him up and see how his day went. :-) Thank goodness Terri is here to occupy me today!!

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I picked him up and he had a big smile on his face. He can' t wait to go back tomorrow. It must have been a good day!

She's here!

2008-09-01T12:54:00.000+02:00

Ok. So, we'll work on some more centered and exciting pictures later. At least she's here! We're just hanging out at the house today, but will do some more sightseeing this week while the boys are in school.

Hayden is very excited about tomorrow, and I'm sure I'll be posting a few more pictures of him on his first day of school.

In With a Bang!

2008-08-27T20:13:00.001+02:00

Here are a few pictures from the first day of school. Landen started on Monday and had a good day. He came home with the assumption that his teacher is STRICT! I have talked to some other parents (teachers included) and found out that this is true. However, I've heard great things about her and it will do Landen some good to have her, I'm sure. The most I have gotten out of him about his school days is how many girls like him. I'm getting daily reports on this subject. Seriously, 4th grade? Good thing you don't actually "talk" to the girl you like and you spend recess hiding from them! I go to Open House next week, so maybe I'll find out a little more about the actual curriculum. I know it includes rotational art, music, PE and computer lab. Plus, 4th grade has to meet keyboarding requirements by the end of the year which I love.

Hayden hasn't officially started, but he did get to go to kindergarten orientation. I was thrilled with his teacher right from the beginning and the fact that there is a full time assistant with her. She is very enthusiastic and been teaching 20 plus years. His class will be jungle animals all year, complete with hibernation (pj days in the winter) and migration (graduation) at the end of the year. She is organized beyond belief. The class also has a smart board that is taller than I am, if you can believe that. The kids will get to use it on a daily basis, including logging in their lunches and attendance. Technology, huh? It's great. We also had a home visit today where she came for about 30 minutes and talked to us. Hayden was a little shy, but answered most of his questions correct. I found out he doesn't know where he lives (he said AR), nor does he know he has an ankle or a jaw. When she left, I asked him where he lives and of course he replies Germany. Oh well. We arent' going to be able to go into the classroom on the first day by the request of the teacher, so I'm glad I had snuck my camera in my purse. Here's one picture of him in his new kindergarten room. I'll have more to post of him outside next week.

The only bump we've had was literally, a bump. During the orientation, the TA took the kids to the other room, while his teacher spoke to the parents. When I went to pick him up, his eye was red with a cut and was swelling! He had tripped over the rug and hit the chair. He must have landed hard because it is still bruising, now inside the corner of his eye and its been 2 days since it happened. The teacher said he didn't cry, but I could tell he was really embarrassed and flustered when he saw me. He told me he cried a few tears quietly. Poor thing! I don't think she realized how bad it was. After some ice at home, it looked better... He's all worried it won't be healed by next week. He was, however very excited to tell Landen when he got off the bus about how he got a black eye. Way to start with a bang.

I can't post without a picture of Jordy Pordy Pipers. This weeks antics include getting into the spices in the pantry (after smelling horrific garlic breath) and penciling the stairwell. I think I need a cage. LOL j/k Matt, see the rose bush on the side of the house? It's starting to bloom, finally.

Only 4 more days until my sister comes to visit me. I can't wait!

Fall?

2008-08-24T09:14:00.000+02:00

Is it possible that Fall is already here? In Germany, it is. The leaves aren't turning yet, but I remember them turning so early last year. I suspect within a month they will begin to change colors. This week we have gone back to the "German" weather we are used to. It's windy, chilly and we even woke up to thick fog this morning. We'll have a day or two of sunshine here and there, but for us I think Fall is beginning.

I've always been a spring and summer girl. Though, this year I never got my "heat" and sunshine fix. So, for once I am welcoming Fall. I am excited about the changing leaves, they are gorgeous in this hilly area. The thought of being on the soccer field in our jackets and gloves, pumpkins, and all the celebrated holidays is beginning to excite me.

Then again, maybe its the fact that school starts tomorrow.

Three Thoughts for Today

2008-08-20T20:06:00.000+02:00

Me: "Who's on your pull up?"
Jordyn's First Reply: "Mommy"
Jordyn's Second Reply: "Rella"
Smart Girl! :-)

I don't remember ever posting about the success of Operation Tutti. It was easier than I ever dreamed it would be, and we have been officially paci free for about a month now. I highly recommend this method. It worked like a charm.

Lastly, Lysol is your friend. Jordyn threw up in the car on the way home from the soccer field tonight. Here we go again with another round of vomit in the Rowland household. I sure hope we get it out of our system by the first day of school.

Update and Defining Things...

2008-08-18T20:52:00.000+02:00

We got the ball down. For a while, our roof looked like this:

Yes, he managed to get 3 balls stuck. Landen didn't think it was too funny. I did. He didn't appreciate me taking a picture and he told Hayden I was gonna put it on the blog for everyone to see...

Ahhh... eventually, Landen said why don't we open the window? Hmmm... why didn't I think of that? Well, it would require me going up a hand made, wooden ladder into a very small square door. Nervously, I agreed and to my surprise found out we have a very nice and large attic up there. I guess Matt already knew this since he's the one that goes up there. Anyway, the trick worked and now our roof looks normal once again. Landen is back to laughing again.

I also found out that Define A Lash Mascara can define many other things... It can Define a Lash, Lips, Hands, Cheeks, Elbows, Toes, Shirts, Rugs, and More. Who knew?

Uh oh!

2008-08-17T19:41:00.001+02:00

Landen has his first soccer practice on Tuesday. See his new ball? Uh oh. Guess we know what he's doing tomorrow! We'll see if he can use another ball to get it down. He tried for about 10 minutes tonight with no success. He did bump it a few times. Good thing he's got about 45 hours between now and soccer practice. We need daddy, because I'm NOT climbing up there and I'm not going to buy another new ball!

Jolee Needs...

2008-08-16T20:34:00.000+02:00

I stole this from a friend. It's something different and funny to do... You google your name and the word "needs", then you type 10 things that pop up. Here are 5 of mine:

Jolee needs to learn what Mike already knows. (hmm... anyone know Mike?)
Jolee needs journaling for your scrapbook. (It's true, I do.)
Jolee needs to stay out of peoples' business. (That's no fun!)
Jolee needs some fish. (No thanks.)
Jolee needs to lose 20 pounds. (Again, true. I do. I would be happy with 10.)

On another note, the kids and I ventured down to Trier today for something different than sitting around here. The kids were good, we did a little damage at one of the stores we like and then got a snack for the drive home. It took up 3 hours of our day :-)

I told someone the other day, that my summer has felt like the movie Groundhog Day. Luckily, it's coming to an end and we actually have a few things on the calendar this week! In a few weeks I'll be longing for these summer days... I know. The grass is always greener on the other side, huh?

Happy Anniversary

2008-08-15T10:36:00.000+02:00

In the spirit of anniversaries, Happy Anniversary to my mom and dad today! 39 Years and counting... if I did the math right, ha! Hope you found something fun to do today. We love you.

One Year Ago...

2008-08-11T13:09:00.001+02:00

It's been a full year since the kids and I have moved to Germany. I remember so vividly the trip over here. Me, three kids, a couple of plane rides, lots of snacks and new toys in their backpacks. We ran into some bumps, but finally arrived and I was never so glad to see Matt! Well, maybe as glad as I was after he came home from Iraq a few years ago. Shortly after we arrived, Jordyn was admitted to the hospital for a kidney infection and our journey in a foreign country began. Look at how much she has changed!

This picture is taken at the exact spot we came out to find Matt. We think its closed down now and not even used. I was pushing a cart of luggage, Landen was pushing a cart of luggage, and Hayden was pushing Jordyn in the stroller. As soon as Hayden saw Matt, he left Jordyn in the middle of the aisle and just ran toward him with excitement... we had to make him go back for Jordyn because Matt couldn't get back there and mine and Landen's hands were full. It was funny, looking back.

This year, the same week, a different scenario played out. We took daddy to the airport, and we stayed behind. It was my first time driving back from Frankfurt myself so I was a little nervous. It's about 2 - 2 1/2 hours away, and there are several routes that can be taken. I realize I've driven in LOTS of places, Los Angeles included, but for some reason it makes me a nervous wreck here. I think its because of the potential of getting lost or the GPS breaking, and me not being able to translate the signs or get help with directions. Or, maybe the fact that I'm driving an Explorer on streets that were made for a Smart. We made it though and we were all in one piece when we arrived home.

On another note, it's Jim and Norma's 45th Wedding Anniversary!! Happy Anniversary, Nana and Pops. You are a beautiful example to all of us. I wish we were there to take you out to dinner and celebrate. We love you, both!

Blog Awards!

2008-08-07T13:02:00.001+02:00

I've been chosen by a friend, thanks Mandy, and been told to pass it on.

1 - Terri: You're my favorite sister ever and I love reading about Hollywood on your blog. Plus, I'm trying to bribe you into coming for a long visit!

2 - Kristy: Because you are a brand NEW mommy and a wonderful friend. I'm going to love reading all about little John Lleyton on the blog. Though, I realize you probably won't have time to pass this award on anytime soon, hee... hee...

3 - Mitzi: Beacuase you've been one of my best friends since high school and you listen to all my complaints... plus little Sam is just adorable.

Summer Days...

2008-08-05T08:19:00.000+02:00

Here's what we've been up to...

Tricks on the bikes and making bike ramps -

Playing with mommy's lotion and making a mess -

And yet, again - obviously mommy didn't do a good job of getting ALL the lotion put up high.

Playdough -

The days are passing, one by one. 20 days left for Landen and 27 for Hayden.... not that I'm counting. :=)

The Sun Will Come Out, Tomorrow...

2008-08-02T16:19:00.000+02:00

Take you back to Annie? I loved Annie as a little girl. I remember going to see the movie.

Anyway, the fog is clearing, I think. After the last blog, I cried the whole next day. I went to a luncheon at Matt's work and a coworker asked me how my summer was going, and I started crying. Poor Matt! Sorry, honey. He's been a trooper, even with a wildly emotional chaotic moody wife this summer.

Today, however I woke up and I feel much better. I got my haircut this morning, got my Saturday morning Starbucks, and we drove to Ramstein to eat lunch at Chili's. We shopped for a few things and have a new GPS, (thanks Nana). I'm starting to feel like me again. I think I'm going to survive!!

The kids get to go to VBS in the evenings this week... woo hoo!!! It's gonna be a better week. I can feel it. Thanks for all the encouragement and excuse my pity party from earlier.

Attitude Anyone?

2008-07-31T20:42:00.000+02:00

Let me start with this quote:

"We must take our troubles to the Lord, but we must do more than that; we must leave them there." Hannah Whitall Smith

I think I'm in need of an attitude adjustment. Remember a few blogs ago how I talked of a dark cloud looming over my head? It's nothing big. It's ALL the little insignificant things that seem to take a sour turn. I know, and am thankful for my 3 healthy kids, a loving husband, a nice house to live in and car to drive, and I'm getting to travel to amazing places.... I don't go hungry, nor have to deal with many of the problems that so many parents do. I get to stay home with my kids, not wake up and run off to work everyday. I have one on one time with them, EVERY day. Though... I still manage to have a bad attitude. Here lately, it has been blossoming and I've got to get a grip before my kids begin to mirror me.

Here's an example of today.... you'll see what I mean. I can take a day like this here and there, but it seems to be happening constantly. My mother in law got to see a glimpse while she was here... It's constant and I'm about to lose it.

The kids guitar hero breaks this morning. Not a big deal, they can live without it, but they spent their joint - hard earned chore money for this thing. They've only had it a little over a month. (We've already ordered a part to fix it, we hope.) Then, I get a phone call from the youth center. The boys' basketball camp next week has been canceled. Again, not a big deal. But, this is the 2nd camp canceled and Landen was looking forward to both of them. There's not much to do here in the summer - so he's been counting down the days until camp. He was broken hearted.

Let's go bowling, I decide. Nope. We get there and its league play. AGAIN. This is the 3rd time we have gone and been told no lanes were open. The 3rd time the kids were disappointed. We get there at 4:30 and I'm told at 5:00 every lane except 2 of them will be closed. I ask, very nicely, if we can put our names on the list for 1 of the 2 lanes? We hang around for an hour. One hour... the kids play video games and we eat. 5:00 comes and goes... nobody is there. The lanes are all still open. At 5:30, the lady tells me, "oh... there open now if you want to play. The people that had them reserved only needed 2 lanes!" This is after the last visit we went and were told to come back 3 hours later, only to come back and it took an extra 1 hour to clean the lanes which she failed to tell me. Anyway, we bowl... and I chew off all my fingernails because I'm angry. Did I mention our lane kept breaking and resetting during the middle of the game?

We leave bowling... I ask the kids, "Who wants to get a milkshake on the way home?" We head to Burger King and place our order, "Sorry, we're out of milkshake mix!" !*&%$#! Breathe, Jolee Breathe. I reply thank you, only now I'm sandwiched in between 4 cars and I can't get out. We wait and wait and wait... for no milkshake. Homeward bound we go.... I'll take the new back gate out which is so close to our house. It's locked, it closed at 6:00pm. I knew that, I just forgot. Again, not a biggie, but you can only drive about 20 mph on base and we had to go ALL the way back to the other side and triple back again to our house without a milkshake in hand.

I'm sure there are things I left out. Like we have our school supply list, yet can't get them at the BX. And we had our GPS navigation system and Matt's ipod stolen out of our car two nights ago. Oh, and Matt's leaving for 6 weeks. We went to the shoppette yesterday to get an icee (isn't our life exciting?) and the icee machine is empty. Isn't life a peach sometimes?

So, I'm not used to living in such a rural area. I'm not used to having to entertain myself day in and day out. I get that I need family time and cherish it, but I'm personally tired of it right now. I'm ready for school to start. The kids are ready for school to start. I want to go to Target. I'm trying to hang in there, to have a good attitude, but its diminishing....

Don't get the wrong idea. I love my husband, I love my kids and I know I'm here for a reason. I've just got to find what it is as I'm here for 2 more years. I know that nothing MAJOR is wrong, it could be so much worse. I really have no business complaining at all.

It'll come. Tomorrow will be a brighter day, right?

Koln Zoo

2008-07-28T20:48:00.001+02:00

Matt made it back from the states on Saturday. It felt like he had been gone a lifetime and it had only been one week. I am certainly dreading the 6 week TDY he has coming up. Anyway, back to the reason for the post. Oh, he bought me a new camera. :-)

The day was pretty and we are running out of summer time as a family with all Matt's travels. So, over the weekend we headed to the Koln Zoo. The weather was gorgeous and we even got a little warm! The zoo was nice and very similar to what we are used to. Some of the animals were a little different than what we are used to seeing, but for the most part it was the same. It was FULL of monkeys which the kids enjoyed, had a huge new indoor/outdoor elephant park, and a nice aquarium. There weren't flowers everywhere, which I expected but it was very clean and neat.

I really got a kick out of Landen. He had his tickle box turned on with the various animal "anatomy" if you know what I mean. I've never seen him be so interested in this, which in turn got mine and Matt's tickle box. He enjoyed informing us of which animals were male. I guess my baby is growing up.

After the zoo, we headed toward the gondolas for a quick ride across the Rhine River. I don't like these things and have a fear of heights the older I get. The idea of hanging high over a river and highway with only a wire above me doesn't exactly excite me these days. The last time I went up in the Arch in St. Louis, I vowed never to do that again. As we took off, my stomach was in knots but I relaxed more about the 1/2 way turning point and began to enjoy it. It was very smoggy, but we could see the breathtaking Dom cathedral from a different angle than we saw the prior time we went.

Just as the gondola was about to turn around for our return trip, Landen looked down and once again got another eye full. People this time. Yes, he says "those people are naked!!" Matt and I look down and sure enough, we are hovering over a spa. Europeans are very free and yes, there were naked people. Men and Women. Nice for the young ones to see, huh? Who puts a spa underneath a gondola?

R.I.P Tutti

2008-07-24T20:47:00.000+02:00

Tutti = pacifier in our house. She named it this after being around a little girl who lived down the street who called hers tutti. I later found out that this is the Finnish word for pacifier. Her grandmother is Finnish.

So, back to tutti. I've been saying it for months now, but I actually went through with it today. Jordyn is VERY attached to these soothers sent from heaven. They are an answer to a few minutes of calmness in the house for a lot of babies. I've dreaded this day from the time I let her have them, but I convinced Matt it would be worth it for the time we have WITH it. Now, I'm asking myself was it really worth it?? I still say yes. Remind me of this tomorrow, and the next day, and the next.

I had been trying to cut back on the day usage of Tutti and done quite well only giving it to her at night. Then, we had a round of sickness and I had a bad day and before I knew it she had them 24/7 again because I caved. I did some research online, knowing I have to rid her of it soon and made the decision to cut tutti. I let her have her last nap with it today, and as she slept I tried to find all of them in the house and snipped the top off. The boys thought it was a funny game, that is until we had to share them with Jordyn.

She did well this afternoon, but began asking for them as usual. I finally let Landen give the new broken tutti to her outside as we were all lounging on the trampoline. I had already scolded the boys for laughing at this game and warned them she would be sad. Sure enough, she was not pleased. She took a look and then tried her best to cram it into her mouth for a suck. She finally got mad and threw it and began to cry. This went on for just a little bit as I assured her it would be ok. While still on the trampoline, I look over at my boys and they both have tears streaming from their eyes. They do have a heart, after all! In turn, I shed a few tears myself and by this point Jordyn was laughing and jumping again.

I'm not really sure who we're having to break of tutti. Jordyn or me? I know the next few days will be tough so keep us in your prayers. I feel like I'm losing my baby so fast. I know she's my last so I'm taking everything to heart. I think I have too much time on my hands.

It's gonna be a long night tonight, I'm afraid.

The Turner Family

2008-07-22T22:05:00.000+02:00

Just wanted to share a few cute pictures of my family enjoying a vacation at Kiawah Island in South Carolina. I wish I could be there with them. Landen was born in Charleston and I plan to take him back there one day. My parents, brother and his family, and sister are in the pictures. Thanks for sharing them, Shannon.

I still haven't forgotten about the rest of the Rowland pictures. I'll come back to them.

Matthew 6:33-34

2008-07-21T12:46:00.000+02:00

33 "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." 34 "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

I'm a worrier. Are you?

Ahhh.... Paris!

2008-07-18T11:16:00.000+02:00

So, onto Paris. This was mine and Matt's 3rd trip to Paris, though all have been "quick" trips. We were fortunate enough to spend a full day with his family seeing the sights.

We started off with a bang. I won't go into a lot of details, but you know how all those little things that are no big deal add up to become a big thing? That's how we all felt by the time we made it to the Eiffel Tower. I have this cloud hanging over me that gives me the unique ability to make the WRONG choice on just about everything. Keep in mind this was after a few other mishaps before we made it into Paris. Let me give you an example... Matt asks me which station I think we should get off of the train on to reach our destination, as there are a few different choices. I chose the one I thought would give us the best view and picture taking area for the tower. Guess what? We got on the subway, and go a few stops.... then they make us ALL get off because the rail is down and having work done on it. They then transport us by bus, thankfully this nice man could tell we were lost and helped us. The bus was CROWDED, we were standing and my arm was about to break from holding Jordyn. We eventually got to the next subway station, bought new tickets and got on for the rest of the way. Ahhh.. finally, we made it. We hop off the subway and round the corner to the glorious Eiffel Tower. Low and behold there are these stands in the way and the stairs are blocked so we can't even do what we intended!!! Anyway, I could give you numerous examples of this, but I won't digress anymore. If Matt had made the decision it would all have been hunky doory ...

So, the Eiffel Tower. The lines were long, but Steve and the boys got to climb the million steps to the top. The wait actually went fairly quickly, and Jordyn was having fun chasing the birds while Norma was doing some souvenir shopping. After they got down, we headed to the boats. With so many of us, we thought this would be an excellent way to "see" Paris without being on foot. Guess again. Wrong decision! Whew... it was very HOT and took a long time at all the stops. The main disappointment was that you really could not see Paris the way we had hoped. The walls were just too high. The kids didn't care though, they entertained themselves with fun games and got to watch all the airplanes over head. We're not sure what they were practicing for, but it was like our own personal airshow above as the Paris sights rolled by us.

Off the boat we go, for a quick stroll through the Champs Elysees. Oh. Did I mention that all we had eaten were a French Crepe (some of us) and the kids had all shared a couple of "hot dogs" with a drink. So much for our vision of eating at a little bistro somewhere, ha! One day, I want to do that. Terri, maybe when you come. The bathrooms presented to be a problem as well, but we eventually found one along with a stand selling bananas and were on our way. We were all tired, but I tell you what... the kids were troopers! Everyone was still in a good mood, even though we were all pretty exhausted by this point. We stopped for a few souvenirs and a quick picture of the Arc De Triomphe then headed back to the hotel.

The kids were dying to swim and we were all starving. Still no real food to speak of. I had a few granola bars, crackers and pop tarts in my room and that was dinner for everyone. Again. We had to get downstairs before the pool closed! My kids don't get to swim here because of the weather, so they were pumped about getting to swim with their cousins. Ahh... swimming was fun and then everyone was off to sleep.

We had a relaxing morning the next morning. The kids swam again and then we headed to Downtown Disney for a REAL meal!! We ate at the Rainforest Cafe and everybody licked their plates clean. It was delicious! Then again, we were hungry by this point. Can you tell? We looked at the shops a little and were headed on our way back home.

I can't stress enough how good the kids were with all that traveling. It was incredible, and all in all it was a fun day in Paris. I know I concentrated on all the negatives, but I just wanted you to have a good dose of our obstacles. We made fantastic memories together that will last a lifetime. Thanks Nana, Pops and Uncle Steve for baring with our family of 5. I'm sure they wished they could leave us behind at times because it would have been much easier for them:)

I still have lots of pictures from our whereabouts around the house that I'll post as well. Check back again for more stories of our travels.